my parents say im acting different. I have to seem normal! help!?

2014-08-02 7:25 am
So I accepted myself and now I feel guiltyish around my parents. And my views on everything have drastically changed. But im 15. My parents say im acting different and our suspicious. *they would kill gays in a heart beat if they could* and im lesbian. Im acting guilty and feel queasy around them how can I stop feeling guilty and seem normal again?

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2014-08-02 7:37 am
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With people like that it is best to wait and come out when it is SAFE. Do not try to be brave. The statistics for homeless LGBTQ youth are heartbreaking and I do not want you to become a statistic. Try to behave normally, I'm not saying pretend you love boys, just remain very neutral when it comes to romance. My friend just always told her parents she was more concerned with school and getting a great job than she was with boyfriends, shes in her 20s now and she lives with her girlfriend, but her parents still don't acknowledge her sexuality. Its something you have to accept. She tried coming out once and they sent her to a pastor to "turn her" straight. She ended up being raped and tormented. I'm not trying to scare you, her parent were Christian extremists, and still are!

Please, just behave as you were. Do not over think it, you'll seem like you're acting. I think it is great you have accepted your sexuality so young though, really! You are so brave!
2014-08-02 2:40 pm
That's exactly how I've been and I've only told two friend ls that I'm bisexual and (I live with my grandparents) I don't think they'd like me being BI my mom probably won't care. But that's like exactly how I've been I would just say that like oh I'm just tired but don't like make a huge deal bc you don't want to draw more attention lol. ;) hope this helped more like a I know how you feel more than helping
參考: My mind and experience ;)
2014-08-02 2:28 pm
Gurl you're just growing up.
2014-08-02 2:26 pm
just tell them youre growing up
2014-08-02 2:35 pm
I know i'm probably going to get a million thumbs down for this, but this should be in the family category.
2014-08-02 2:28 pm
your family is kinda strange
2014-08-02 2:28 pm
THEY'RE DISGUSTING.
2014-08-02 2:28 pm
Lol, it's not the end of the world now is it? Just relax and pretend if you have to.. Or better still, just tel them... They cannot kill you ffs! Just relax yourself and keep calm...
2014-08-02 2:26 pm
why so serious


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