How do I improve our sex life?

2014-07-25 8:50 pm
My husband doesn't want to have sex with me anymore and when he does he watches porn while we have sex im tired of fighting with him for it its not only that he dont kiss me,hold me,show any kind of love,attention,or affection at all treats me like we are just friends instead of like a wife no hes not cheating on me and no hes not gay yes im 100% sure im not leaving him either just want advice on how to improve our sex life

回答 (11)

2014-07-25 10:44 pm
One way is to maybe role play.. if he's turned on my watching porn, maybe buy a cute little outfit and totally see where that goes.. it may make the fantasy of the porn real and maybe it can spice things up a bit. If learned in marriages, people have to continue to rediscover each other over and over again, to have a healthy happy marriage. let your husband rediscover you.. see you for the sexual creature that he married.. I hope this was helpful! Good Luck
2014-07-25 9:36 pm
"How do I improve our sex life? "
-- He is bored of you, thats why he watches porn.
2014-07-27 1:31 am
There is no way i would submit to having sex with a husband who watches porn while having sex with me, unless it was a mutual thing we wanted to do from time to time.

Seems to me he's bored with the relationship for some reason? You and he have to figure it out.... ?
2014-07-25 10:56 pm
Porn,viagra,and all those sex industry stuff.
2014-07-25 10:40 pm
Get some side action.
2014-07-25 9:11 pm
Join a swinger group.
2014-07-25 9:10 pm
Have you asked him what is going on? Its common for guys to have low sex drive. Low sex drive in men can be caused by numerous psychological and physical issues. Stress, low testosterone, depression, obesity, liver issues, diabetes, etc...etc...can all reduce sex drive in men.

Him getting a physical can help him understand if there is a physical problem or not. Then, you can both go see a sex therapist for additional help.

So...he gets a physical and then you both go to a sex therapist. That is your path forward. Don't listen to silly people that tell you to 'talk sexy' or to 'dress sexy', etc...etc.. There is no logic to those suggestions.
2014-07-25 8:55 pm
Have you tried dressing sexy to get his attention?
2014-07-25 8:51 pm
Mozongo
2014-07-25 9:06 pm
You might have rejected him in the past over and over again to the point that he can't get over it. He have felt the rejection that you are feeling now. Maybe that's what stopping him from having sex with you, have a talk with him and let him tell you what's stopping him.
2014-07-25 9:06 pm
Just try to fake affair with someone and make him feel that you are still hot girl and people still interested in you. Once he come to know he will give you attention and also he will be care or asks you more question. he will watch on you. Just try to do something different. he will be all yours dear.

Best of luck

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