I have been dating a girl for the last 5 months and lucky me she's my high school sweetheart, we both met in art class and we both honestly love each other, I am 16 and she just recently had her 17th birthday. And she has brought up the subject of engagement a few times Since we started dating and unsure of how I felt at the time early on in the relationship I dodged the question but now I am sure hole heartedly that I love her and that she is the one, And my idea is that we get engaged now in secret from are family's and to get married a few years later once we are done high school and have set up a life together, dose this sound like a good idea?
I am planning to propose to her this September...
Should I propose to my girlfriend?
2014-07-06 7:07 pm
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2014-07-06 7:53 pm
✔ 最佳答案
5 months? 16? No. Definitely not the right time to propose. And keeping secrets from your families is childish, not something adults who are ready for a life long commitment do. When you are older and have experienced more, you will realize how important and how very special it is to have your families involved in your wedding and engagement. You are 16, so of course you do not see things this way, you're still just a kid. But when you are an adult you will realize it. Also, engagement is the period of time that you are actively planning your wedding, so you should not propose until you are both actually ready to set a date, book a venue and caterer and DJ etc., and pay for everything. What you should do at this point is give her a promise ring. It is a symbol of your commitment and a promise to propose someday when you are both independent and ready.
2014-07-06 7:55 pm
No.
If you still feel this way in five years, sure.
If you still feel this way in five years, sure.
2014-07-06 7:10 pm
If you intend to go to college, which you should, don't. It may sound tempting, but the fact is you may not like her in ten years, as you are still young. Continue dating throughout college and then decide.
2014-07-06 7:10 pm
Terrible idea. You don't want to hear it, but wait a few years.
2014-07-06 9:53 pm
No. The only thing you can be sure of is that at this moment it absolutely feels as though she is the one. But feelings can change with time. At sixteen and with only five months of dating, you don't know enough to discern what you need for a lifelong union. Especially since you can't even talk to the adults in your life about this.
2014-07-24 12:24 pm
engagement ring? No. Promise ring? Sure!
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2014-07-07 5:36 am
If you have to keep it a secret, you aren't ready.
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