But men are suppose to be bigger?
Usually if a man has the build of a VS model, he is told to bulk up. And if a woman's hips were as big as a bodybuilder's chest, she is told to slim down. People only say that a man's waist should be small but he can be big anywhere else. Why can't that apply to women too?
It's a myth that big means masculine and small means feminine. Men and women should be relatively the same thickness to height ratio. Both big/small in different ways. If men are suppose to have big shoulders, women are suppose to have big hips. Both should have thin waists though.