Help Me,Please!!!! 中轉英

2014-05-13 9:01 am
形成此性格的原因是在他們小時候覺得被忽視,沒有人聽取他們的意見,而且他們發現即使是直接表示憤怒,也不會有人重視他們的看法。因此他們意識到自己的特權得不到重視,他們只能麻醉自己,分散自己的精力,讓大腦把自己忘記,所以經常無法了解自己真正的需要,也因此養成忽視自己真實需要的習慣。
當我在notes裡看到後,我非常同意自己是屬於第九型人格。因為我小時候真的沒有人重視我的想法。小時候我是住在村裡,身邊全都是長輩,很少有與我同年的小孩,唯一就只有哥哥。因此在家中就已經很少有發言權了。有時會覺得我是否有存在的價值?

直到現在,我雖然再沒有這種想法,但是我變得比以前更沒有注見,不知道自己想要做甚麼、需要甚麼,連未來我都不知道自己可以做到甚麼。還有在我讀小學的時候,因與一位朋友發生了一些不愉快的事情,最後大家不歡而散,令我日後盡量都不希望與人發生爭鬥,因為我覺得與人爭鬥真的是傷神又發力,而且最重要的是有可能會傷及他人,這是我不希望發生的事情。

而self-management是看似容易卻是最難的。所講self-management就是指對自己的目標、思想、心理和行為等等表現進行的管理,將自己將做的事情組織起來,並且管理好自己,最後實現自己目標的一個過程。過程雖然辛苦,但是要自己管理自己就十分困難,當見到自己想十分要的東西時,大家能夠約束自己不能夠買下嗎?我相信是很困難的,像吸毒者戒毒一樣困難。不過,我雖然是想管理好自己,但從來不尋找一些方法去幫助自己,但在這個課程裡,令我了解現在我第一步要先作一個圖表給自己,可以更有效地去幫助我管理自己完成想達到的目標。
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2014-05-14 8:03 am
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The reason for this personality is formed in childhood they feel neglected, nobody listen to them, and they found that even a direct express anger, no one would pay attention to their views. So they are not aware of their privileged attention, they can only intoxicate themselves, scattered their energy, let yourself forget the brain, so often unable to understand their real needs, and thus neglect their real need to develop the habit.
When I saw the notes, I very much agree that he was a ninth-type personality. Since I was a kid, I really did not attach importance to the idea. I was a child living in the village, surrounded by all the elders, there is little in the same year with my kids, the only only brother. So the home has rarely have a say in it. Do I sometimes feel the presence of the value?

Until now, although I have no idea, but I became more than ever before, see no, do not know what they want to do, what you need, even in the future I do not know what they can do. There I read in elementary school, and a friend happened because of some unpleasant things, and finally we broke up, so I do not want to try to battle with others in the future, because I think that really is a lot of trouble and strife and force, and most importantly, there may be harm to others, which I do not want to happen.

2014-05-14 00:04:04 補充:
The self-management is a seemingly easy but it is the most difficult. Talking about self-management refers to the management of their goals, ideas, and so on psychological and behavioral performance of will to do things he would organize and manage themselves, a process finally realize their goals.

2014-05-14 00:04:19 補充:
Process may be hard, but to manage their own will be very difficult when they want to see something great when you want, we can restrain himself can not buy it? I believe it is very difficult, as difficult as drug addicts.
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