I need advice on this huge crush I have on my professor?

2014-05-05 10:09 am
Okay so I had him last semester and this semester I visit him in his office sometimes just to talk to him.

He's married so I would never hook up with him, I only visit because I want to be friends with him. But a small part of me kind of hopes that he'll come onto me. And sometimes after I leave his office I'm a little disappointed that he didn't do so.

So do you think it's okay for me to continue visiting him since I just want to be friends, or do you think it's better for me to just stop visiting him?

Thanks!

回答 (5)

2014-05-05 10:13 am
✔ 最佳答案
Stop lying to yourself. you are not going to his office with the intention of befriending him. part of you wants to see where this will go, and you know this is a train headed for disaster. you are smarter than this hun, and this is a married person on top of that. Don't put yourself on the line like this. find a guy your own age, maybe not even your own age, but atleast someone who is available.You don't want to look back at this and regret this, best avoid trouble and be glad you don't have any classes\courses with him
2014-05-05 5:23 pm
I think it's better to stop talking to him, since he ALREADY has a family. Even if you still kept on thinking about him, try to do some activities to distract yourself (E.g: Play video games, surf the web, go shopping etc.) Besides, there're so many fishes in the sea, I'm sure you'll find someone who's available and within your age to date with.
2014-05-05 5:18 pm
Don't do it to yourself and also him. Save yourself the pain
2014-05-05 5:14 pm
Don't go to his office, he could see your eyes and the way you look at him. He is married so don't be the reason that breaks up his family.
2014-05-05 5:11 pm
It's better if you stop.

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