(歡迎處女男請回答) 應該放棄嗎？

我們是透過家庭聚會認識，
他是個處女男，剛開始他講過自己係完美主義者，一遇到有啲嘢佢唔中意就會無限放大。
我地連續keep住聨絡三個月，曖昧左兩個月。
期間佢有表白，但係佢話需要時間去諗得清楚啲，因為he is looking for 結婚對象。
He would like follow his flow to start the relationship ....
2 weeks ago he said that he felt like we r not in the same direction...better to be fd...
但係前一日仲講話: I miss u!
I duno why he suddenly changed that fast...
I tot we can just be close fd...but obviously his attitude is charged....he close his door .... I know that I m too serious into this relationship ....I duno how to do...as I do love him ...today he told me that he hv moved on with his life... Does it mean he dun like me anymore?

Just forget him??
定係為自己爭取？
I trust him that he was serious in last 2 months becoz the feeling is so true...