外國大學讀唔上

爸爸媽媽送得你去外國, 對你應該都有一定既期望, 所以你先會擔心唔知點同佢地交代。但無論你讀唔讀得成書都好, 你都係佢兒女, 佢地又點會覺得供你讀書係曬錢曬時間呢?

其實去得外國讀書, 係一個好好訓練自己既機會, 學識自己照顧自己同埋學習獨立。真心個句,你去讀一年之後乜都讀唔成返黎, 真係好曬父母錢.. 之後再努力d lor! 你check 清楚學校係咪真係會踢你走先啦, 可能有得retake 過呢! 努力d take up返學校d野啦, 唔可以因為少少事就逃避嫁嘛!

宜家係香港搵工係難,競爭係大, 既然你知道就更加應該努力d唔好自己摺埋剩係愁... 講真係係外國讀過書返黎都有advantage嫁, 所以儘量讀啦, 死頂又好乜都好, 如果你宜家呢一刻放棄就真係曬左之前個一年!

朋友呢d野係雙向既真係無辦法, 可能隔一排又會好d呢.. 試下係學校識下朋友啦, 人愈大識朋友就愈難.. 自己一個人生活係外國係辛苦, 儘量搵人傾下啦, 記住即使係外國無朋友都好, 你都仲有你爸爸媽媽, 佢地都希望你係外國生活得好嫁!

加油啦!

千萬唔好再諗自殺..
生命好寶貴, 無野比生命更重要!

你抄哂D科, 都係因為自己無認真讀書先會咁..
其實依家你真係要諗清楚
究竟自己仲想唔想讀
我只可以講 讀完大學 有個學位 係比自己多D選擇/機會
當然 亦有好多人無讀大學 一樣可以係其他方面發揮 一樣可以好出色

你父母送得你去加拿大 都係想為你好
如果你已經諗清楚 自己想唔想留係加拿大繼續認真讀
或者係返黎HK 讀IVE/副學士/DEGREE
你就要好好同父母商量下
講出自己的原因和感受
咁父母先會明白點解你有咁的決定


同埋你成日無啦啦喊...任何野都無動力做
你依家考完試 俾D時間自己放鬆一下
要好好處理自己的情緒問題!

其實只要你父母肯，你可以試下換另一個容易一點的科來讀，或者去另一間大學，轉下新環境。你的情況不至於無大學讀的，你畢竟在當地高中畢業，其他大學也會考慮的，不過返香港讀就難點了,fighting!

First, forget about how your parent may think, concentrate on yourself first, the most important thing is you, coz this is your life.

I think you possibly had depression, from being alone in a new country, all the stress, worries and pressure, conflicts in life etc have caused you a very low self-esteem/confidence, you may be feeling ashamed and guilty about your life but please remember, this are just a small part of your life, you are still young, so what if you've 'fuxked' it up once, a lot of my friends failed their year one or dropped out because of different reasons, played too hard and failed all the subjects or just found that they are not interested in the subject. So it is common and this is not abnormal.

What you should do is pick yourself up and rethink about your life and do you seriously want to be give up the chance many people would died to have? It's clever of you to think suicide is only going to mess this up more, it shows that you obviously still care about your parent and yourself.

So, if you need help, please seek for professional help, speak to your parent about your true feelings and I think they will understand. They didn't give up on your when you had bad results in HK, they won't give up on you when you failed but with a new direction. Good grade and good university are not necessary for a good life, it is a life you've tried hard to achieve something that worth calling it a good life. ADD OIL!!

你好，這是《自殺．自療．互助舍》。從你所寫的內容，我感到你心中的困苦。雖然，我並未完全了解你，但我明白置身痛苦中是怎樣一回事。有些人在困苦之中，會選擇放棄自己。不知道你也曾否出現放棄自己的念頭？

我相信自殺是人一生中最矛盾和痛苦，也是人生中最重大的決定。我深信，自殺不是您想選擇的，更不是您唯一的選擇，只是您所面對的困境和痛苦好像超越了您所能應付的。

無論你是否打算放棄自己，我也希望你不要將困擾藏在心裡，好像氣球裡積存的壓力一樣。您不如停一停，到訪我們的網站www.help4suicide.com.hk。那裡有一些勵志故事、有趣短片，也有與自殺有關的人與事，你可以隨心看看。您更可以進入網站內的『真心話室』（星期一至五，下午８時至１２時）即時與我們的義工在網上即時交談，或致電我們24小時電話熱線2389-2222，與我們的義工傾訴。

我們願意聆聽你的心聲，伴你一起走過這段艱難的時候！
只因『晴天雨天要樂天，難關難過總會過』！

既來之則安之，有冇人同房好閒啫，最緊要你要知道你要做咩嘢，完成任務，以後嘅事，以後再算，正謂有飯就食，有教就訓，有書就讀，仲有幾年，做哂先知得唔得，做咗先啦。