怎樣放棄一個人

As you mentioned, you can actually know the feeling of the boy, why don't you
keep some distance from the boy. It doesnt mean you dont care about the boy,
but it lets the boy feel more comfortable. Otherwise, he may hate you and breaks off the relationship between he and you. If you follow this advice, it probably
remains some chances in the future. Love does not mean force, tell him that you only want to be his friends even this speech is not the true feeling from the
bottom of heart. I really hope that you can let him know your true thought at the
future but not at right now. Time is only way to solve the problem. The chance
may be appeared when the boy is no longer think you are annoyed.
Cheer it up! I will support you!

你地本身係咪好朋友/朋友黎架?
其實唔一定要放棄鍾意佢,不過可能唔好show出黎咁多,咁就唔會嚇親佢喇
我認識有D男仔係會對女仔嘅表白覺得好驚架!
畀多D時間同空間你自己同佢喇!
喜歡本身都唔係咁易放棄嘅, take time!!

這個問題，很像我以前的問題
不過我對那人是沒有愛情成分
單純的友誼

但為了放棄這個朋友，我都花了一年半時間。

我跟你說最能放下一個人的方法。
其實你可以繼續深愛著他
而同時放下他。
因為不再愛他和放棄他是兩回事
分別在於愛是無法選擇，而放棄是可以選擇。

所以你要分清楚兩者性質不同，
做得到的話，你應該也輕鬆了不少。

然後，要知道兩個道理，
1感情是無法勉強
2愛一個人應該是想他幸福而不是佔有

愛情是無法勉強的，友情同樣。
即使勉強成了朋友也不能像朋友一樣
所以你要打消跟他來往的念頭

你愛他的話，其實你只要看到他快樂
就應該會感到滿足。
其實不應該再去介懷他在不在意你。
因為你本身就應該知道他已不在乎你。
那你就要放棄了，
但你是否繼續愛他和放棄他是兩回事。

放棄了他，只是從明顯的愛轉為默默的愛而已

你就以祝他幸福快樂為你的愛意

默默地去深愛著他吧。
然後等待更能令你深愛的人出現吧。

2014-04-09 00:25:28 補充：
把以上的事做出來雖然看似簡單
但你一有些少理解錯誤或想不通
就會很困擾

所以請務必讓自己保持心境平靜

try to think why he doesn't like u or even be friend with u.
if u can't think, try to ask him, if he doesn't answer u, try to ask your best friends.
if your friends do not have any idea, try to be more friendly and help others more often, i'm sure u can be a friend of him.

if u have any difficulties or questions, feel free is inbox me n ask me ;)