How can I be happier?

2014-03-03 6:38 am
I think my parents do not care of be and my mum always hurt me deeply.I really want to die and I do not want to share my opinion with her because she shouts at me all the time.I think I don't belong in this family.I love my school life and my friends more.
I start ballet when I am 12 and I start at grade6,I want to catch up them although it is difficult so I want to learn twice a week. I told my mum ,and she shouted at me loudly and she said those stuff that I do not want to hear.
I have cried for 3 times per day but she do not noticed.She hurt me deeply and she said that she don't me to be her daughter.I am so depressed and down.I really want to die.
Can anyone tell me how to be happier?

回答 (3)

2014-03-03 12:03 pm
✔ 最佳答案
hello I am Joshua....do tell me if u re called Vivian!
Frankly speaking ,I have also been like you before,when I first study my electives...wjere i encountered my depression in academy!I want to doe too
but hpw could i solve the problems ……I solve them bravely
now the 1st thing to tell yrself is to stay calm and never be rush or too disappointed
i know u must say i cant i camt i am too sadsad,right?
but i think u can do it
tcuz i can overcome that depression feeling ,why cant u ?
u can just ignore yr mother first,actually!She is the barrier to u in this case
manage toxtake care of yrself before she could score u
then you are successsful of being a human being in the worls!!!
eei dont always feel wanting to die
and i could tell u currently
i am in love with a pretty girl
but that's when i know she has to go for further studies in this sem
i am jeart broken too
but i gradually e
overskme that sepresssion
feeling
you could do it !!!
support u !!!
2014-03-04 3:23 am
Hi, how are you? I can feel your sorrow deep inside, which is very intense, desperate and powerful. To paint an overall picture as you described, I can see your main problem is came from your family, especially the conflict between you and your mother, isn’t it?

It is a bad news to hear that your mother treat you so disrespectfully when you ask for more intensive ballet practice. Is that a prevailing interaction pattern in your family, i.e. it is impossible for you to have a two-ways talk with your mother? Would you like to tell me more?

It is understandable that every teenager have their own hobby, including you. Having ballet lesson with your friend definitely is a good time. I believe if you hurt yourself, it will also hurt those who care you, like your friends and your ballet teacher. I hope that you will make a promise to us not to hurt yourself and find us for a deeper talk.

Honestly speaking, there is no specific formula to feel happy, but we can balance our mood in a more graduate way. If you still feel depressed, and would have someone to talk to, let's contact us, Whatsapp: 91703714, Facebook/ Skype: [email protected]
2014-03-03 10:59 pm
care more aboput yourself...you worth a better life...neglect your parents if they push you too much!
you enjoy your school life so you d better spend more time on your school life...and with your fds...

PM me , maybe we can be good fds!

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