Hii,
So I'm 16 and may possibly be pregnant. Here's what happened, no judging or hate please. So I had unprotected sex on December 18th, then got my period from the 21st-26th (late by 3 days) but it wasn't my usual period, it was lighter and didn't last as long. I then had unprotected sex again dec 31st and jan 1. I was birth control but I just found out that the antibiotic I was on interferes with my birth control, making it ineffective. I am now bleeding down there, but my period isn't expected till January 18th.
Me and the guy are together. He's almost 18. He doesn't know this yet because I want to be forsure before telling him.
So basically I just want to know what you did whether you had an abortion, put your baby up for adoption, or kept it. Do you regret your choose? How old were you? How long had you been with the guy? Was he supportive? If not at first was he later? Education? Work? Basically everything. What did your parents say/do? Were they supportive? If not at first are they now?
I had unprotected sex and if I am pregnant I will step up and take the respossibility. I'm just weighing my options. I'm against abortion, put am looking at open adoption. I'm looking at open adoption as my mom was a teen mom and didn't get her **** together and. I bounced from foster home ot foster home. And don't want that for my child. Plus I don't think my adoptive mom would be supportive at all as she is christian and highly believes in no sex till marriage. But then again I don't think I could ever give my baby away. Also, his parents aren't going to be supportive as they do not like me.
Teen Pregnancy Stories?
2014-01-07 3:30 am
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2014-01-10 9:23 am
I chose life for both my children, at fifteen and eighteen. It doesn't matter how hard it gets, the obstacles that I overcome are not worth their lives. As for adoption, rather than giving up my children I want to take one in. I wouldn't trust anyone else with my kids.
I was with the father for almost two years when our first was born, and it will be five years when our second is born. He has been supportive, from brushing her hair to working while going to school. He has always made his children a priority. He's a better father than most that I've seen in my life, especially in my family. We were both young, so mistakes have been prone to happen. We're still learning as we go, and while some things are hard to forgive it makes it easier to heal knowing that we grow from the hard times. We both finished high school, and will start college in two weeks. We plan on transferring to a four year. Regarding work most of our income comes from our small business. We always made our money from side jobs instead of just taking up a job at a fast food place. Working for eight dollars an hour is not worth it once you take into consideration the cost of daycare. I guess it's an option for those who have helping hands.
My parents were not happy, neither with my daughter nor with my current pregnancy. I don't care though, this is my life and I know what I'm capable of. I was practically a stranger to them, so they applied most of their parenting to me based on other teenagers. They assumed "oh no our teenage daughter is pregnant" so right away told me about how I would have to give up my education, be a single mother, and suffer for the rest of my life. I don't need toxic people in life, but I still keep an alright distant relationship with them. They are my only parents after all. I never expected any support from them, my children are my responsibility and their father's.
Good for you for choosing life <3 Remember that if you plan on going down the adoption route to choose a family ahead of time and possibly have another two in mind just in case something goes wrong. Many couples wait years for a newborn, so chances are high that your son or daughter would get adopted immediately not get bounced around. It's the older children that have a harder time getting a family, but that's due to the unfair stigma of damaged children, ugh.
My advice to you is to trust yourself and love yourself. You have your own back and you know where you are going and what you want for your child. People may betray you, even those who you thought you could most rely on. Your priorities will change as you emerge from teenager to adult when thinking about the best interest of your child. You will get so much negative energy, so you should also learn to use that as motivation. When people tell you that you can't, you won't, and you shouldn't that's when you prove them wrong. The world is now watching you, people will gossip and many will be curious how your life will unfold. Show everyone what you're capable of, but remember that your success should first and foremost be for yourself and your child. Good luck, and if you need anyone to talk to you can message me.
I was with the father for almost two years when our first was born, and it will be five years when our second is born. He has been supportive, from brushing her hair to working while going to school. He has always made his children a priority. He's a better father than most that I've seen in my life, especially in my family. We were both young, so mistakes have been prone to happen. We're still learning as we go, and while some things are hard to forgive it makes it easier to heal knowing that we grow from the hard times. We both finished high school, and will start college in two weeks. We plan on transferring to a four year. Regarding work most of our income comes from our small business. We always made our money from side jobs instead of just taking up a job at a fast food place. Working for eight dollars an hour is not worth it once you take into consideration the cost of daycare. I guess it's an option for those who have helping hands.
My parents were not happy, neither with my daughter nor with my current pregnancy. I don't care though, this is my life and I know what I'm capable of. I was practically a stranger to them, so they applied most of their parenting to me based on other teenagers. They assumed "oh no our teenage daughter is pregnant" so right away told me about how I would have to give up my education, be a single mother, and suffer for the rest of my life. I don't need toxic people in life, but I still keep an alright distant relationship with them. They are my only parents after all. I never expected any support from them, my children are my responsibility and their father's.
Good for you for choosing life <3 Remember that if you plan on going down the adoption route to choose a family ahead of time and possibly have another two in mind just in case something goes wrong. Many couples wait years for a newborn, so chances are high that your son or daughter would get adopted immediately not get bounced around. It's the older children that have a harder time getting a family, but that's due to the unfair stigma of damaged children, ugh.
My advice to you is to trust yourself and love yourself. You have your own back and you know where you are going and what you want for your child. People may betray you, even those who you thought you could most rely on. Your priorities will change as you emerge from teenager to adult when thinking about the best interest of your child. You will get so much negative energy, so you should also learn to use that as motivation. When people tell you that you can't, you won't, and you shouldn't that's when you prove them wrong. The world is now watching you, people will gossip and many will be curious how your life will unfold. Show everyone what you're capable of, but remember that your success should first and foremost be for yourself and your child. Good luck, and if you need anyone to talk to you can message me.
2014-01-07 3:35 am
this drama may help you relax
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHrcge0QrVI
it is about a 14 years old girl got pregnant
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHrcge0QrVI
it is about a 14 years old girl got pregnant
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