What do i do with this friendship?

2014-01-01 7:55 am
This is going to be a long story but please help me because I am stressing out so much
So my friend A told me that B hates C
and well, I know I shouldn't have but I did...I said I don't think C like B anyway to stand up for C and then I told C that B hates her
but C didn't say anything
The day after that, A told B that C hates her
So today, B told me that C hates her and so she hates C now
so I told her that C only hates you because A said you hate her
B denied and said she never said that
And then I again, I know I shouldn't have but I ask A what did she say
A said she didn't tell B that C hates her, and she cant even remember saying B hates C to me
But I swear she said it.
B said I shouldn't have listen to what A said and should have clarify it with her before telling C
and yes I agree but I already did it, B and C talked and they are sorting it out now
B thinks everything started because of what A said, which is kind of true
But I feel very guilty because if I didn't tell B what A said, B wouldn't blame everything on A
B said that because I didn't trust her so she is done with me
and also A might get really angry with me because I told B what she said
I know I did so many wrong things but I want to try my best to keep this friendship and solve all these.
Please help me with advices thank you very much

回答 (1)

2014-01-03 10:30 pm
✔ 最佳答案
I think when a friend tells you she is "done with you", there's no point in trying because even when you try to make up for it, they will always talking about how you lost their trust and blah blah blah. I've had a friend tell me that and so it was over.

A seems to be a problem spreading all the rumors, but it's so hard maintaining friendships when its a whole group of friends. There's bound to be someone who feels left out, or there's bound to be rumors and arguments. I suggest talking to them individually instead of a group, in the future. And if B really doesn't want to be friends, so be it.

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