If someone tries to cheat on his girlfriend with you would you tell her?

2013-12-30 3:20 pm
For instance, a friend on FB hits on you repeatedly and even tries to ask you out. I said no. The most disturbing part is that he has a gf who is blissfully unware of what kind of guy she is actually dating.. You wonder if you should tell her or... basically none of your business and just let her find out herself in time? I don't know the gf, she just seems like a nice person in her posts and very much in love. In another instance, a married friend's husband in real life tries to hit on me and get touchy feely, forever makes use of my naive friend to get close to me.. I got so uncomfortable I basically cut off all contact with my good friend without telling her the real reason. What would u have done in both situations? Badly need serious opinions

回答 (6)

2013-12-30 3:21 pm
I always find that honesty is the best policy. I think it's best to tell her and then leave it up to her what decision she makes and how she handles the situation from here.
2014-01-07 11:25 am
For the FB friend you should ask him to stop it, and if he doesn't, just approach his girlfriend. It is honestly up to her whether she believes you, and whether she wants to ask her boyfriend about it.
Before anything gets too far you should go up to your good friend and tell her about it. If she doesn't believe you, or gets angry at you for what ever reason, then honestly you have done what you can. mean while, you can try to get as far away from your friends husband as possible and never EVER be alone with him.
In both circumstances, you are kind of the third party, so you have to break it off as soon as possible. Both of them deserve to know whats happening, and whether they believe it or not is really up to them!

Good Luck!
2013-12-30 3:27 pm
Would you want to be aware that your boyfriend is running around cheating on you? I had a girlfriend who did this **** to me and knowing, although it hurt REALLY badly definitely helped me move on and realize that I totally made the right call by leaving her. They could already be having problems such as arguing and disagreeing, this could just be the final act that'll get her out of an unhealthy relationship. I say tell her, she deserves to know
2013-12-30 3:28 pm
I would let them know. I don't want to spending my life and time with a cheater when i can truly be, love. Not only that but the person getting played would look like an idiot each time while he's laughing it of on how dumb she is. Make sure you show them the proof.
2013-12-30 3:23 pm
No. You will end up looking like the bad guy. Trust me. Just tell the guy off and keep quiet.
2013-12-30 3:23 pm
They just looking for new sex partner
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