15 male . decent looking . somewhat well off . Go to school go home sleep. Not sure what I want in life. have no friends , too confused to bother to make any. I'm jealous of all the people around me that seem so happy for a reason that can't comprehend . Don't wan't to kill myself or anything. How to make my life meaningful and actually be happy? Thank you if you took the time to read . (side note- my parents are of no help) .
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Well, I guess one place to start is to be open to making a friend or two. Life feels meaningless when we live it alone.
Second, a lot of writers deal with the question of whether life has meaning, so you can look into both literature and philosophy to help deal with your questions. I would suggest "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl.
Best of luck to you.
As a fellow teenager, (slightly older, i'm 17) it's hard to find purpose, especially when you're so young and everything's so confusing. When I was 15, I did track & field, and though it didn't give me 'purpose' so to speak, it gave me a lot of discipline and i dunno man, it just makes you feel good about yourself. If people around you seem happy, it's probably just because they consume themselves with things, and that's what you should attempt to do. Find common interests with people, talk to people, it seems awkward and lame but seriously it makes school go by so much faster, and then you'll actually look forward to going home so you can keep talking to them on facebook & whatnot. If you're not one for friends and more introverted, just try out new things - sketching is time consuming & a great emotional outlet, video games (ugh especially the new GTA) internet (particularly tumblr & imgur) and just random **** like that.
just remember that there really is no purpose, just go with it ma' man.
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Life itself has no meaning, but try to head where you want to go.
It is like a maze without guidance or direction in it.
well you have to make money first before doing anything.
In your spare time spend some time reflecting on one self (on what you've been through).
Look for the dreams you long hoped for, then use the money you've earned to realize those dreams, to make dreams come true. (buy items, your favourites, go to disneyland, etc.)
If you have found anything in life that you like, don't miss it.
create your own life story and write it in a notebook.
watch a whole lot of movies/cartoons to make yourself happy.
A person can be well off but feel empty inside. On the other hand, there are individuals that live with very little, but are full of joy. Interestingly, mental-health professional Viktor Frankl answered: “The striving to find a meaning in one’s life is the primary motivational force in man. . . . There is nothing in the world, I venture to say, that would so effectively help one to survive even the worst conditions, as the knowledge that there is a meaning in one’s life.”
The following article is very helpful:
http://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/meaning-of-life/
Of course it is pointless .
To every person have an aim, You have also that like aim but you can not finding it -That is your problem-You think again and again there is very nice life of your- You are only15 years of old boy- You see the your age boys how they are run there life- You should do as like the same thing-In this age you have many many friends you have very cheerful minds you will always play with your Friends- What you are telling that you age is 70 years up- You are very very little boy only you should think as like this way--
If you do nothing with yourself you will have nothing, no revelation there but its as simple as that, make no efforts and that's what you get, aim for nothing and you'll hit it every time, if you lead a life of seeking pleasure it says a lot about you and as many of the wealthy find out pleasure loses luster after you have repeatedly done it (what ever it is), I love listening to a Buddhist monk on tunein radio app on android type Buddhism and he's the guy in the red robe, this weeks teaching is especially meaningful, but besides that the Bible teaches many great things you just got to read, I also read philosophy books, I compose music, do boondoggle keychain and wristbands, work, help others (or attempt to), photography, videos, and explore music from around the world take care of my wife, kids, mum, blah, blah, in other words I fill my time with things that matter (especially to me), you must do something with yourself, climb a hill, read, become great in something but do something
參考: Life.
i was without any friends at your age and before for years and years.
i was 16 before things began to change slowly and by 18 i had my first long term and popular gf. even though my separation from her many years later caused my social status to plummet i can tell you life was really worth it even though it took so long to emotionally catch up to others.
good luck kid