外國讀書無fd

2013-11-05 9:34 am
我係一個係美國讀咗2個月書既15 years old 女仔, 我成日都覺得好lonely.
我係一d好shy同唔係好識用英文同人傾計既人. 呢度d人係唔會開口同你傾計先, 所以我要主動同佢地傾. 但係我咁shy點會成日做主動個個, 所以真係無咩朋友, 就算有試過幾次同佢地單獨行都唔知講咩好係無話題講勁尷尬囉.
當我望到d人一班班既時候我仲會覺得孤單其實都有asia係一班既但係佢地係唔識中文加英文講到lok lok 聲個d. 唉我依家都係反學等放學再等假完全唔開心, 好想反香港.
其實我諗過係咪因為係香港習慣咗有朋友黎到呢到個變化咁大, 所以我接受唔到. 加上見到呢到d人咁多fd更加jealous同覺得孤單.
我知我都係讀咗2個月姐唔使咁擔心住但係都真係幾困擾唔該教我點做好!! thanks a lot.

回答 (9)

2013-11-05 11:34 am
✔ 最佳答案
我是不知道你為什麼要去美國讀書啦,
但如果你係為左學好英文或是讀好書回港的,
我建議你最好讀好自己的英文先!
你連最基本的英文對話都成問題,
怎麼去交朋友?
當你對話沒問題的時候,
你就可以借交流時候認識不同的朋友!
而且無論在哪個國家.....
要認識新朋友一定要自己去主動,
不然沒什麼朋友也正常,
如其在妒嫉別人,
還是主動出擊吧,
世界上沒白吃的事,
不想動又想要得到東西,
這是不可能的,
必須自己先付出才能有收獲!
這其實也是訓練你自己的獨立能力,
沒有人一出生什麼事情也會做,
也是由不會學到會!
如果因為自己不想做就逃避,
哪你自己就永遠也不會成長,
永遠也改變不了!
就算回到香港也會有很多不如你願的事情發生的,
難道每次你也要逃避?
勇敢點去面對吧,
其實這不是一件困難的事情,
只要你肯踏出一步,
放膽去做就行了,
祝你成功!!!
2013-11-14 2:21 pm
Nothing much you can do, even you can communicate with simple English, its doesn't help you too much. They talk about singer, movie stars, shopping mall, daily life, games, those are most teens want to talk about. I think you have to read more news about these pops singer, master to sing a few words, watch popular TV shows and movie, then you talk about your favorite stars, the song you like, play games, such as volley ball, joint the high school sports games, when you play with them, you will have conversation. There are always one or two love to be friend with foreign student, but don't expect everyone love or like you. All you have to do is approach them nicely, and ask for help in anything, then eventually you will have a few good friends. Of course, you have to joint the groups and do and act the same, this is very difficult, hope this advise can help you a little, good luck.
2013-11-12 9:50 am
你要主動D先得架!! 如果你主動, 就算你唔係好識表達, D鬼妹鬼仔都唔會介意架! 只要你同佢地講話你真係唔係幾識用英文溝通, 請佢地體諒下, 我諗佢地都會見你咁有心識朋友, 而會同你一齊架!! 加油啦妹妹! 依家先兩個月, 仲有大把機會去主動架!! 但記住一定要自己主動, 先識到朋友, 若你抱著等人接近你既心態, 咁朋友自然就唔會擁有架喇!!
另外, 你都可以積極學習英文, 努力學會點樣用英文同人溝通, 識外國朋友都唔會係咩難題喇!! 加油啊~~^ ^
2013-11-08 10:37 am
睇當地電視, 新聞, 八啩嘢, 先有共同話題同人溝通, 先容易融社群, 多睇當地電視, 英文都會學得快啲.
2013-11-07 6:38 pm
去度邊識到邊,適者生存。
2013-11-07 6:47 am
忍耐,用心,等待,努力吧,加油
2013-11-06 11:28 pm
朋友唔洗好多..一兩個就夠..

朋友未必要在身邊~~

唔好理人點睇..

慢慢就會有朋友~~

學習獨立都好丫~

佢地好多朋友好似好開心

其實佢地都一樣會lonely~~

因為真心朋友好難搵

搵d同種類的人lor..唔好勉強自己~~

努力學英文~~

先苦後甜**
2013-11-05 7:47 pm
我有個家姐同朋友以前起USA讀書同你遇到同一個情況..就係唔識點樣同當地既人交流溝通..英文而且唔多好..就覺得同當地人有種隔瞙~就變得自己一個人..而且冇車牌,唔熟悉當地環境..整天都好掛住HK既日子..我知你呢段時間可能好唔開心好BORING..但我家姐朋友在當地差不多一年..已經習慣左果度既生活..餐餐都係肉^^..我知道唔應該同其他人同你比較..但係我覺得你會慢慢會接受到,你想識到朋友..其實最緊要笑..比人一種開朗既感覺..自然會搵你..但係你都唔好一味掛住笑..你應該主動用英文問下佢地日常做D咩?有咩興趣?USA有咩地方可以去??傾一D日常生活既野~由慢慢傾計..又可以訓練出英文!方便日後既溝通~你15歲已經起USA讀書..我唔知你讀到幾時..但最好主動搵人傾計!!!
2013-11-05 1:38 pm
我而家都係外國讀緊
都有同你差唔多ge經歷
不如pm我傾下

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