咩叫自尊心

自尊心==自己尊重自己的態度;
Self-respecting mind==having self-respect mind for oneself.

It means how you see yourself/

什麼是自尊心？簡言之，就是看重自己。有強烈自尊的人深信自己應當保有快樂的心情，有權為自己的權益說話，這種人相信自己有能力處理人生旅途所面臨的種種困境。

　　反之，自尊心低落的人則認為自己無權為自己的權益挺身而出，這一類人常常不會喜愛自己，不尊重自己，或甚至對自己懷有一份強烈的恨意。那麼，一個人要如何才能增進自已的自尊呢？以下是六個增進自尊心的方法。

　　第一、不要欺騙自己或否定既有事實。當你碰上不如意的事，不管那是多麼令人不悅的話，絕不要抱著舵鳥心態。勇敢面對一切現實，並且想辦法去解決。

　　第二、從做小事開始。不要將時間花在無所事事的幻想，或竟日呆坐在電視機前，隨便做點小事，打掃房間、回覆好朋友的信等等。每當你完成一些事情時，你的心情就會更好，日子更充實。

　　第三、不管多麼微不足道的事情，一定將它做好。將事情做成功，達成任務是增強自尊的捷徑。當你克服各種挑戰，你會覺得對自己更滿意。

　　第四、堅持改變消極的想法。當你在眾人面前做出了些錯誤的事時，你會因而退縮自責嗎？或許這是從孩提以來，每當你做錯一點事就被罵「笨蛋」所造成的。今後你要扭轉思考方式，當你出一點小錯時，你要想「喔，我犯了一個錯，我是凡人」。不要再一個勁地想「我好笨」！心念只稍這麼一轉，你成長的空間將更寬廣。

　　第五、要有拒絕的勇氣。想說「不」時，就勇敢地表達。如果我們不敢對別人說「不」，等於賦予別人極大權力，而自己往往會淪為別人控制的工具。

　　第六、不要放棄自己的夢想。這是增進自己自尊最重要的一著，如果你放棄了自己的夢想，就很難增進自尊。如果你已經覺得自己「江郎才盡」，你又如何能有自尊呢？不放棄夢想就是不自我放棄，打拼奮鬥的人會覺得人生充滿意義，也會展現自尊。

Self-esteem is one's sense of worth.

According to various people, they have different level of self-esteem because they different feeling of worthiness to themselves. Somebody like a cleaner or a normal citizen does not feel they are worth that much. For example, a cleaner will think "oh even if I quit the company I am working for, it will just find another one to replace me." This presents he/she does not think she is worthy, thus he/she will have low self-esteem. But others like president of a country or a boss of a company, compared to a cleaner, have a higher level of self-esteem. President will think that "I am the leader of this country, the country cannot function without me!" This shows that he/she feels high worthiness because he/she thinks the country will be in chaos without him/her.

Despite the workplace position can affect one's sense of worth, individual's mind is the most crucial because the "sense of worth" is totally subjective. A cleaner can think like the President that "If I am not here, there will be no one to take care of this place. I am very important here." or the President will think like the cleaner that "I am so useless, I cannot lead this country well."

Self-esteem is about worthiness. If one feels worthy, he/she will have high self-esteem, and vice versa.

自尊心：要有尊重自己的心。

自尊心是自我尊重之心，己所不欲，勿施於人。

咩叫自尊心!! 中英對照,plz!
英文 : self-respect
中文 : <自>己<尊>重自己的<心>志意向行為

尊重自己，維護自己的人格尊嚴，不容許別人侮辱和歧視的心理狀態