怎樣安慰女朋友!?

2013-09-13 11:04 am
最近我女友同佢一個好好既朋友嘈左交(成件事係點我都唔係咁清楚 我都問個佢好多次做咩事)佢話唔會再理佢個朋友 之後佢個人就變哂 我唔知點安慰佢我同佢傾計佢又好冷淡咁復返我 脾氣又變到好大講兩講就發脾氣 我話去搵佢 叫佢出黎又話唔好 我唔知佢想點 我要點樣先安慰到佢?

回答 (6)

2013-09-13 5:29 pm
✔ 最佳答案
首先不要查問她前因後果,她不是需要一個法官。

按她現在的心情...應該甚為深刻的傷害或者甚至被出賣那類...
所以可能短暫覺得對別人失去信心...包括你(假設一個好親密又愛的人),唔想見你就係唔想直接要去面對自己這種感覺,見到你的關心或者聽見你聲音便會聯想和觸動那事件的感覺。

其實有些小動作已經可以安慰她...唔需要你去幫她解決情緒問題的...

例如:
你們平時通訊只係約時間地點或者只係交代情況等等的話,試下晚上短信她「我記掛你...不要再胡思亂想...好好睡,明天應該會是晴天...」
(當然你預先看準天你預告才說這個)

又或者只係送她一盒朱古力cup cake...便讓她回家自己享受;她如果能食得窩心又珍重你的話,識做的便會在當中揀一件約你送給你食...(當然你有心思的便買時預先在當中有一件是代表你自己的口味...又可哄哄她又可試試提昇她的智情商互動)...當然她之後沒反應亦不要好介意...千祈唔好講出這計謀。

最後唯有約她的好友(問吓佢哋有冇她的消息情況...)由第三者出手...但這是低檔方法...只能在一兩個月後她仍不啋你才用吧。
2013-09-17 9:01 pm
首先你連咩事都吾知,第一件係大錯
然後連點點安慰佢都吾知,第二件係大錯
最後唔知佢想點,係最大既錯

一來你吾了解佢,就借呢件事多D了解你女朋友
然後搵反佢鍾意既野一齊做,送佢鍾意既野.
最後最後重新了解下你女朋友

有問題可EAMIL
2013-09-15 9:10 pm
唯一辦法就系去同個位朋友傾下 令佢地和好反
有咩可以email我:)
2013-09-15 12:34 am
就由你妮取代她個朋友 la
2013-09-13 4:44 pm
before answering your question,
one very important point has to be clarified first :
同佢嘈左交那個好好既朋友 ---- 是男是女 ???
2013-09-13 12:50 pm
firstly, prepare your heart.... women are hard to understand sometimes XD
ask her are you mad at me as well?
let her cool down... may be she just want sometime to think....
may be during that time, make some photo collection and send to her....
try writing notes or email, just to tell her the memories together and how much she means to you?

but prepare yourself...

All the Best...

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