好唔開心,做人好失敗,好似乜都失敗乜都俾人差咁,我唔甘心

don't give up!

i try to help from my point of view:

i understand what you are going through,
few questions:
1)have you ever talk to girls? making even just friends connections? have you try speed dating? have you try make friends with girls?
I think the most problem is that you have been focusing too much on changing yourself... what you need to change is your communication and try to make friends
go to party, shout people dinner and have fun...
2) Jobs are important, but stay in a job constantly is good enough...
you are doing a job because for girls attention, i suggest find a job that is comfortable and stay at that job,also wait for promote...

3) looks - i heard girls don't really care about looks, if you treat them well and love them well... exclude HK girls XD!!! they are all about looks...
but just try talking or approach some girls....
shout them dinner or so... hk people always want **benefit... sometimes can let go and have some fun,learn to get some taste of what girls are...

4) money - yeah money is what everyone wants, rich or not but the main point is happiness and be able to live...

I think hong kong have really high standards, so may be go somewhere that are lower standards... and start your life again... i think you have good survival skills...
try going to party? don't compare yourself with others, just do your best on your role.... if everyone is genius, who will do the rubbish, who will build houses? right?

All the Best

我很欣賞你對自己的了解,
努力去改變自己,
相信你也是個有上進心的人,
但有某些似乎有點偏見

你很明白自己需要女朋友,
不就積極一點, 從身旁朋友的朋友, 或同事間的朋友找找看

每個人都會,
見到別人的成功,
總會有羨慕又妒忌的心態

自己是自己,
別人是別人,

我也很羨慕你自由自在, 為自己生活而生活的日子

2013-09-04 18:40:01 補充：
你抱着這樣的人生態度,
痛苦的只有是你自己

人比人會比死人,人若能知足就會常樂,每個人總有不同的際遇,我們須然或對某些帶有羡慕,若不心存妒忌,就能豁然開朗,但若能為人送上祝福,似為人錦上添花,其實那就更是勝人一籌了,富商與你同擁有24 小時,但他們的壓力不少於你,他們請保鑣為的是恐怕與帶有驚慌,我們的床須少但可安然入睡,婚姻不是一件簡單的事,也不複雜,要的是雙方面組成的,而所建基於是彼此相愛,縱使不脫離物質那種現實,但也絕不能受物質以致影響真情的愛,所以不用強求於眼前對別人的擁有,反觀自己沒有需為身邊的人擔驚受怕,受家庭負責的各種壓力,豈也不是人所說的自由嗎?說實在的只是30的年頭,我們把思想放遠多一點,今天世界上幾多窮困,苦難裡的人他們能像我們可以休閒地喝杯咖啡嗎?不要單看自己根本不是問題的事太多,用多點心,力去留意能予以施比受更為有福吧,聖經說:赤身出於母始,也必赤身歸回,每者在這短暫的人生中我們要追求的是活得有意義,不是自尋煩惱,希望能彼此互勉.

你同我都有D似, 唔靚仔,唔高,冇錢, 怕羞底, 得個爛鬼大學學歷
但我入左30, 唔擅長吹水講笑而無乜朋友, 但都識到另一半同有份ok既工
唯一既秘訣, 就係堅持! 阿信的故事主角阿信, 一個女人為了生存掙扎、奮鬥、創業. 作為男人, 點可以輕易放棄呢?
可以email我傾下計

2013-09-01 19:51:16 補充：
flyinblu
@
gmail.com

讀埋博士，大把女排隊要你

你不必自卑,自卑先失敗



你家人呢,好好孝順佢地,



你依家去搵份工,就算係差都無計,



為屋企,為自己,辛苦D都值得



你以前哂時間,依家珍惜咪得囉,



只要好好珍惜,就覺得生活會變得好充實



你可以做義工,



出街時裝扮得整齊點,樂觀D



呢個世界,有成60億人,



你諗下有幾多個人陪你!



我諗最低都有5萬掛,唔知最多呀



個個都好似你咁諗,人生又點會過得有意義呢



你話無錢,點解唔去賺呢,知唔知收到薪金O既滿足感有幾大?



人總係要靠努力先可以咁,你睇下李嘉誠,



我媽成日叫我勤力D,先可以有咁O既成就. 由今日起,好好儲錢,重新做人!

一句講哂 . . . 失敗乃成功之母~~^^

你肯去改變自己，積極上進已經好好㗎啦，好過成日係屋企打機的無業青年。
我諗大把人同你一樣廿幾歲係咁工作，要受老闆氣，出到嚟社會就係咁，唔會事事如意，但係你做野盡責，咁就問心無愧啦!理得啲老細點睇你。
你唔係冇錢，只不過唔夠人地多，其實能夠做你自己鐘意嘅工作，收入穩定都係一種福氣，你冇女朋友，高登嗰首「中四不似預期」講嘅就係一大班冇女的男仔，中學冇拖拍，出嚟又係咁，依啲都係好好多同你一樣的男仔嘅心聲。你望咩女仔佢地個樣都係串串貢架啦，見到靚仔就發唒姣咁款，我係女仔我會叫嗰啲做死cheap精，佢地成日以為男人望佢一眼都係性騷擾咁，你唔需要理佢地，真正愛你就唔係睇樣係你個心。
做唔好？你有興趣化妝就可以繼續鑽研落去，化妝化得靚先係重點，咪多啲搵人試下囉，就嚟三十，三十咋喎，唔係老，你仲有時間，你要睇得起你自己！

記住一句: 人比人, 比死人
呢個世界永遠有人勁過你, 待遇好過你, 所以攞來比較只會苦左自己。

你可以向好果方面諗:
你搵萬零蚊人工, 單身寡佬, 自由自在, 自己想做乜就做乜, 冇人管, 幾舒服呢?
你做任何野都好努力, 係非常好的, 其他人和你上司見唔到唔緊要, 你在努力既過程中, 你做好左你本份, 對得住自己, 提升左你自己。

你試下將個焦點放番在你自己身上, 與其期望從別人身上得到虛無飄渺的一句讚賞。
倒不如提醒自己在日常生活、工作過程中有什麼得著, 你自己修練番來既野無人可拎走, 果D才是實實在在既功德。

呢個世界, 走在最TOP的只有幾個人, 你唔係果幾個人唔緊要,
仲有99%既人和你一樣都是凡夫俗子。

你試下把自己抽離下, 諗下如果你唔係生活在呢度, 生活在香港, 而係一個外星人。
從外星人既角度望番落地球, 其實說不定會令你覺得眼前都只是虛無飄渺, 或者從外星人眼中, 根本個個地球人化既妝都係一樣樣, 佢都睇唔出分別。

其實講到尾, 重點都是放低執著, 尋求自在而已~

係非常難的, 但希望你會試下學習放低...

好唔開心,做人好失敗,好似乜都失敗乜都俾人差咁,我唔甘心天不生無用之人, 地不長無根之草, 事若求全無可樂, 人非看破不能閑,
双手劈開生死路, 翻身跳出是非門, 用力撼頭埋牆可以令你清醒些.

庸人自擾之:平凡的人,自己攪亂自己