男友忘不了前女友，所以我提出分手，但好唔開心

你好丫! 其實我都好明白你真係好唔開心, 但係唔通你唔開心就可以解決到問題？唔開心就可以令到佢放底前女友？

當然我並唔係話你要好開心咁面對, 傷心係一定會, 我覺得你唔洗太悲觀。
唔通你認為你唔可以遇到一個比佢更好既人？
試諗下將來, 如果你再識到一個好愛你既男朋友, 係真係可以同你一齊一生一世既人, 你就會覺得你為以前果個唔係真正愛自己既喊係一件傻事, 甚至你會忘記再呢個人。

當然, 我認為復合都唔係無可能, 但一定唔係依家。
我覺得你好識諗, 起碼你唔會係因為分手搞到要生要死。
而且你都識講, 佢依家個心入面有第二個, 不如比少少時間佢, 睇下佢選擇放底以前, 定係要重新同翻佢前女友一齊。
其實佢會同你講佢心入面有第二個, 證明佢都坦白, 復合並不無可能, 只不過你地需要既係時間。比啲時間自己，亦比啲時間對方~

我知道而家叫你放棄, 你放唔到, 要你繼續又辨不到, 我都曾經試過,
我想你再搵佢只會令自己更傷心, 唔搵佢又做唔到,
你搵d野做分散下自己主意力, 搵d野學下, 讀下, 忙下... 你就唔會有時間想佢太多,
而佢ex根本不存在, 只係佢根本唔愛你.
現在你當為自己做番d野, 忙d就唔會想起佢, 為自己留番d尊嚴!
20歲仍然有慢長歲月, 佢只係你其中一部份, 唔係一開始就可以搵到終身伴侶, 總會遇到天愛你既人. 只係你要比機會自己放手.

感情冇得勉強 :

吾系付出過 , 就可以得到佢愛你

加上要比時間佢忘記 ex 女友 ,

( 因佢同佢相處長過你好多 , 經歷過你好多 )

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你亦吾一定要愛佢 ( 你得 20歲 )
可以 chose 其他 ,

可能會發覺他人會比佢更好 , 更適合你

到底當妳係咩
佢同妳一齊時當妳係女友, 所以先對妳好, 唔當妳女友就唔會對妳好, 相處落覺得同妳唔夾, 覺得新不如舊, 先搵番舊女友, 佢冇欺騙妳一腳踏兩船, 都算唔差, 妳自己都認為大家根本唔夾, 妳而家只係為啖氣, 條氣唔順唔甘心, 唔甘心唔理智去做啲無謂嘢, 蝕底係妳自己, 死纏爛打, 何必呢, 將時間做其他嘢, 少諗無謂嘢, 好快就會忘記.

你而家要做ge事就係調整一下自己心態先, 你而家有點不理性的狀態, 你自己都明知佢係唔再愛你架嘛 , 你亦明知相方性格唔係好夾 ! cool 煲都末必有用啦, cool煲都要對方仲係愛對方先至得, 但係似乎佢同你分左手係若無其事, 當然你說你唔開心是可以理解, 因為你真心喜歡一個人, 如果你打電話比佢, 佢都唔會太孚顯你, 你還是有機會cool煲, 但係他的態度好似唔想同你多講野, 就算你再打電話比佢都唔係太好, 真係冇尊嚴, 要令自己好過d, 就係要找回自己攞, 同埋調整自己心態, 你要洗洗自己個腦, 你20歲大把青春點解要為一個拍左3個月拖而最後大家性格唔夾分左手, 仲要個男仔一d傷心都冇喎, 你仲傷心d咩 ????
同自己講由今日開始不再為他傷心喊, 因為唔要為左一個唔識珍惜自己ge人而傷心, 要增值自己, 個森林好大好大, 仲有唔好再問點解拍拖ge時候講過ge野, 點解佢冇做到, 第日遇到咩男人都好, 佢同你講咩都好, 聽住先啦, 唔使太上心架, 有心對你好ge人 , 始終都會對你好唔使多多野講都好架 ! 希望你真係唔好再傷心啦, 唔值架, 知唔知 ????

i had that same thing as before but it was with my ex.....
you just need time to recover.. about 3 months you will be okay... then you think back how stupid it was...

i know it's the most painful when you want something from them, but you can't get it...

during those 3 months, i learn to not listen to sad songs, but love songs to recover... i have tonnes of flash back and dreams too... stay strong just talk to someone about it and forget it... for me every morning after wake up and night time, just talk to a friend...

my ex said the same thing, forever stay with me and no matter how fat you are will still love me all that rubbish, did it with pinky, they are liars...

hang out with friends more, usually i would txt them none stop like ex, but just txt different friends instead...
i spent so much money hanging out with friends to get over her... but now have friends...

honestly it's not worth getting back, if you tried your best and still don't take notice...

you can email me... and i try talk to you if you want... by email me through here...

i still suggest love your next one better, don't stop from there...

其實沒有什麼好放不下的 , 我也曾經有過這樣的經驗 , 眼光放遠一點自然就放下了 , 感情不是生活的全部不要一直鑽牛角尖這樣只會更痛苦 , 兩個人會分手一定有原因 , 分手後又復合.....相處起來也是怪怪的吧! 可能會有些相敬如賓的感覺吧? 你有沒有想過或許你們只是習慣對方而已? 或者只是需要一個人陪而已呢? 在感情的世界只要有一方不愛了 , 就沒有再走下去的意義了 , 感情是互相的 , 男方既然說忘不了前女友什 , 那也就是說他要的也不會是現在的你 , 勉強在一起只是拖延時間而已不會快樂的 , 放手對你才是最好的! 況且你現在當兵也不能做什麼 , 現在就是好好服完兵役 , 不要自己不開心影響到身邊的朋友 , 反正你還年輕這只是一個過渡期! 看開一點生活還是要過阿 , 加油!!