更新1:
I've never looked at the possibility of it being deleted by asker so I didn't know if it was possible.. but if it is, I'm guessing that is what happened. It was kind of a sensitive subject question so maybe they just wanted a little advice and then wanted it gone from the site. Thx all :)
更新2:
I believe due to the nature of the question and that it had plenty of answers and plenty of time left that it was deleted by the asker. You guys were all helpful thx :)