大概3個月前,我男朋友轉左新工,
之後佢就變得好冷淡,wts app睇左唔覆,打電話又唔聽(佢次次有合理解釋)
我每次同佢講點解你咁冷淡佢都係話我好煩(我一星期只打比佢2,3次)
後來我同佢講我完全feel唔到你愛我,我好辛苦
佢就話咁辛苦就分手,分手第2日我地有傾過,佢話佢對我冇feel
但係明明分手前一個星期都好地地
之後我地話比一個月時間大家,睇下可唔可以變返以前咁,
但係佢呢個月都好忙,連假都冇得放
次次見面都係食餐飯就走,
都冇時間好好咁傾下計,
一個月就咁過左,佢話都係對我冇feel
好後悔冇好好把握呢一個月
最後都係分左手,跟住我冷靜左一排,冇同佢見面/傾計
經過冷靜後,
我仲係好愛佢,我好想挽回佢,但係個個都叫我放手
之後我有同朋友(同我男朋友同公司)傾過,
佢都話份工(sales 要追數),好大壓力放工唔想理人
但係我仲讀緊書,唔識體諒返工有幾累我都知我應該比多D空間佢,
佢已經一放假就陪住我
1.我係咪唔應該挽留佢?
2.我真係一D機會都冇?
3.我應該點樣挽留佢?
應否和怎樣挽回男朋友?? 求各位幫幫手!!
2013-08-13 9:06 am
回答 (6)
2013-08-13 5:30 pm
✔ 最佳答案
2. 似乎你愛的感覺或理念是一種「一齊」的現像和認知(名份)，但他(一般男性)的愛一個人是要有征服感和情趣感(有些包括被重視或自尊)才會覺得女朋友是一個有意義的伴。1. 你沒有講太詳細，但就算吃一餐飯也就可以成為情趣...但你卻沒有珍惜這一餐去令他覺得跟你一齊食飯比自己一個人食好...卻要「傾」。男人係唔會傾出感情來的，你以前覺得他會談情係因為佢要征服你的手法使他會有動力這樣做，但講了分手冇feel即是他已經沒有動力去使你被他吸引...而你自己本身亦他為一個已經完全不吸引的物體，你要挽留或者仍想感動/激動他的話唯有變為主動，但不要話變番以前咁...而係要製造將來會係點的感覺...
3. 如果你認為有青春的話...不要以前女友身份叫他做回你男友...而係當自未未係他女友要追他這個可能成為你男友的男人...
他知工作辛苦...你約他出來食完飯(怎樣約和食甚麼亦是另一手法)，然後帶他去附近的公園/休憩處給他肩頸按摩...然後便叫他放心返屋企好好睡...
這只是例子...當然你才知他最需要的甚麼...讓你自己成為他的需要，而不是感到自己失敗者。
2013-08-13 5:11 pm
或者真係放手
你我做個朋友吧
就好似人地話
勉強永遠冇幸福
如果真係唔想分開
試下大家保持距離
得閒就開解下佢
唔好俾佢壓力太大
因為工作的壓力真係好大
最緊要係你唔好
一唔中意就講出黎
要俾佢將壓力放出黎
同佢講有咩事可以
一齊去解決
你我做個朋友吧
就好似人地話
勉強永遠冇幸福
如果真係唔想分開
試下大家保持距離
得閒就開解下佢
唔好俾佢壓力太大
因為工作的壓力真係好大
最緊要係你唔好
一唔中意就講出黎
要俾佢將壓力放出黎
同佢講有咩事可以
一齊去解決
2013-08-13 3:14 pm
1: 唔應該
2: 多數冇
3: 要勉強挽留一個唔鐘意妳, 對妳冇feel 嘅人, 好難.
次次見面都係食餐飯就走, 冇時間好好咁傾下計, 係因為佢對妳冇興趣, 自然冇話題, 唔想嘥時間, 自然係食完飯就走人, 佢仲肯應酬妳同妳食餐飯都唔算好絕, 妳仲唔識做放手, 嚟緊嘅係, 更多令妳更難受嘅嘴臉.
假如重視一個人, 無論幾忙幾攰, 都要百忙中抽空會一會, 對妳冇興趣, 自然係幾時都又忙又攰, 如佢係近期先突然轉變又冇先兆, 佢可能識咗新女友.
2: 多數冇
3: 要勉強挽留一個唔鐘意妳, 對妳冇feel 嘅人, 好難.
次次見面都係食餐飯就走, 冇時間好好咁傾下計, 係因為佢對妳冇興趣, 自然冇話題, 唔想嘥時間, 自然係食完飯就走人, 佢仲肯應酬妳同妳食餐飯都唔算好絕, 妳仲唔識做放手, 嚟緊嘅係, 更多令妳更難受嘅嘴臉.
假如重視一個人, 無論幾忙幾攰, 都要百忙中抽空會一會, 對妳冇興趣, 自然係幾時都又忙又攰, 如佢係近期先突然轉變又冇先兆, 佢可能識咗新女友.
2013-08-13 11:40 am
對你說忙只是籍口，每個人忙完或玩後總有一點空虛的感覺，呢個時候就會找愛既人或朋友傾訴...但佢對象不是你～
2013-08-13 10:11 am
或者妳最好先了解自己到底想係呢段關係中得到咩先...
呢刻妳要更正一下, 妳唔應該用「挽留」, 而係用「糾纏」黎形容...
要明白其實感情係會變質嘅, 不論好壞, 都係需要慢慢理解接納, 呢個係意識層面上嘅事, 唔好話咩冇假放或者冇兩句會影響感情, 真正影響感情嘅係滿足感...
試問一下, 一對夫妻終日為口勞碌, 有D可以白頭有D則一吹即散, 妳認為分別在於咩??
如果妳仲未係過程中吸取到教訓的話, 就算比幾多次機會妳都冇用...理性思考吧啦~
呢刻妳要更正一下, 妳唔應該用「挽留」, 而係用「糾纏」黎形容...
要明白其實感情係會變質嘅, 不論好壞, 都係需要慢慢理解接納, 呢個係意識層面上嘅事, 唔好話咩冇假放或者冇兩句會影響感情, 真正影響感情嘅係滿足感...
試問一下, 一對夫妻終日為口勞碌, 有D可以白頭有D則一吹即散, 妳認為分別在於咩??
如果妳仲未係過程中吸取到教訓的話, 就算比幾多次機會妳都冇用...理性思考吧啦~
2013-08-13 9:35 am
Your case is happen at me for a few times,i think if he really dont get any feel
on you, i think u need to give up him, love can hurt as died!! i think u are a good person, u care him because u love him, u can try dont send wtsapp and call him
for a long time, let him regret. Perhaps this way can make he know u a important
I suggest u to do that because i have do that for 2times and it get work!
Hope i can help u^^~ cheer up! life are still beautiful!
on you, i think u need to give up him, love can hurt as died!! i think u are a good person, u care him because u love him, u can try dont send wtsapp and call him
for a long time, let him regret. Perhaps this way can make he know u a important
I suggest u to do that because i have do that for 2times and it get work!
Hope i can help u^^~ cheer up! life are still beautiful!
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