I'm really sad and I can't get rid of this feeling?

2013-07-09 5:41 am
I used to think this was depression, but isn't. This starts to happen when I lose something valuable of mine and I get obsessed with being sad about it, such as when my phone broke about a year ago, I kept being very sad about it for about 2 weeks because I couldn't fix it and my phone was now gone, I sometimes cried at night, this time I just recently bought a used car for around 2k (note: it took me 3 months to save this up) and I found out it needs new tires and it has a motor issue. I've gotten this same very sad feeling that I just over paid on this car and will probably spend more on it, I can't get rid of this sad feeling, It's mostly at night when I'm about to sleep, I just feel so sad and I hate this, I sometimes cry at night, I just want to stop being so sad and stop worrying. What can I do to get rid of this feeling? Please help, i'm just really sad all the time, like right before your about to cry.

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2013-07-09 2:05 pm
yeah, I completely understand what you mean, it's like I have lost my favourite book.
It's my notes on physics lessons with a cartoon on the front cover.
I lost it, and I can never get it back, so I feel very sad too :(
you cannot get rid of this feeling because it is something you hold dearly for.
it is your dream and now's been broken...I am sorry, there's nothing we can do right now.
we have to be strong...try to find trace of your dream and see the positive side of it.
it's like I've lost mine, but I could create/build a new one, if I like.
same as you. if you have lost something, try to make amends to it, if you like.
pain is part of life, it's how we deal with it, and learn to let it go.
what is the meaning of life? It is to make amends to the past for a better future.
if you can dream, you can reach it, you can achieve it. try to work on the motor issue if you have some free time. good luck, and may the force be with you.
2013-07-09 1:31 pm
Jesus said,

Matthew 11:28-30, (NIV)

28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”


How can I be saved? Why do I need to be saved?
We are all infected with sin (Romans 3:23). We are born with sin (Psalm 51:5), and we all personally choose to sin (Ecclesiastes 7:20; 1 John 1:8). Sin is what makes us unsaved. Sin is what separates us from God. Sin is what has us on the path to eternal destruction.

How can I be saved? What do I need to do?
“Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved” (Acts 16:31). God has already done all of the work. All you must do is receive, in faith, the salvation God offers (Ephesians 2:8-9). Fully trust in Jesus alone as the payment for your sins. Believe in Him, and you will not perish (John 3:16). God is offering you salvation as a gift. All you have to do is accept it. Jesus is the way of salvation (John 14:6).

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You will need to get Baptised.


Question: "How can I be filled with the Holy Spirit?"

Answer: An important verse in understanding the filling of the Holy Spirit is John 14:16, where Jesus promised the Spirit would indwell believers and that the indwelling would be permanent. It is important to distinguish the indwelling from the filling of the Spirit. The permanent indwelling of the Spirit is not for a select few believers, but for all believers. There are a number of references in Scripture that support this conclusion. First, the Holy Spirit is a gift given to all believers in Jesus without exception, and no conditions are placed upon this gift except faith in Christ (John 7:37-39). Second, the Holy Spirit is given at the moment of salvation (Ephesians 1:13). Galatians 3:2 emphasizes this same truth, saying that the sealing and indwelling of the Spirit took place at the time of believing. Third, the Holy Spirit indwells believers permanently. The Holy Spirit is given to believers as a down payment, or verification of their future glorification in Christ (2 Corinthians 1:22; Ephesians 4:30).

This is in contrast to the filling of the Spirit referred to in Ephesians 5:18. We should be so completely yielded to the Holy Spirit that He can possess us fully and, in that sense, fill us. Romans 8:9 and Ephesians 1:13-14 states that He dwells within every believer, but He can be grieved (Ephesians 4:30), and His activity within us can be quenched (1 Thessalonians 5:19). When we allow this to happen, we do not experience the fullness of the Spirit's working and His power in and through us. To be filled with the Spirit implies freedom for Him to occupy every part of our lives, guiding and controlling us. Then His power can be exerted through us so that what we do is fruitful to God. The filling of the Spirit does not apply to outward acts alone; it also applies to the innermost thoughts and motives of our actions. Psalm 19:14 says, "May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer."

Sin is what hinders the filling of the Holy Spirit, and obedience to God is how the filling of the Spirit is maintained. Ephesians 5:18 commands that we be filled with the Spirit; however, it is not praying for the filling of the Holy Spirit that accomplishes the filling. Only our obedience to God's commands allows the Spirit freedom to work within us. Because we are still infected with sin, it is impossible to be filled with the Spirit all of the time. When we sin, we should immediately confess it to God and renew our commitment to being Spirit-filled and Spirit-led.


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The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

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