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Sick of failing, why does it happen?
Why am I a constant disapointment?
2013-07-06 1:50 pm
Whatever I do I am always disappointing my parents and myself and everyone around me. I am always failing, when I standup again to try again I end up failing, I try my hardest but never succeed. I am no good at anything. I failed again, and I can see the sadness in my parents eyes, I got kicked out of my universities because I keep failing even though I try so hard. I feel so sad when everyone gloats about how well they do in their exams, and then there is me. The failure. My parents always support me through it, but I feel so sorry for them, I wish they had another kid in replacement of me who could make them happy. All I wanted to be was smart, but I am not I always fail no matter what. I am always a disappointment to everyone. Why does it keep happening? I try different methods and it happens again, am I just that mentally incapable? Feel so sorry for my parents that they are stuck with me.
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2013-07-06 2:00 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Find out that what's the reason. I mean, is your studies really that tough for you? Or on the other side you don't concentrate and don't study that much? Any one of this can cause your failure. See the thing is just with the way you look at the things you know. I mean just see around and grap the skills from people who get passed with great marks you know. If you need any help than feel free to contact me. I'll advice you. 
2013-07-06 9:27 pm
well not everybody succeeds, I fail too.
I am more of a failure than anyone else, got ill, fail to complete my a-levels,
thereby failing to reach university.
I am trying to work my way to university, and I haven't given up, so neither should you.
failing is part of the learning process - it helps us to grow and become more individually as a person.
well nobody is smart all the way long. please don't cry
I understand failure is painful and filled with unhappiness. I understand. It's ok. you don't have to be so hard on yourself, it's fine.
It's ok. you can talk to me. and remember the force will always be with you.
I am more of a failure than anyone else, got ill, fail to complete my a-levels,
thereby failing to reach university.
I am trying to work my way to university, and I haven't given up, so neither should you.
failing is part of the learning process - it helps us to grow and become more individually as a person.
well nobody is smart all the way long. please don't cry
I understand failure is painful and filled with unhappiness. I understand. It's ok. you don't have to be so hard on yourself, it's fine.
It's ok. you can talk to me. and remember the force will always be with you.
2013-07-06 8:59 pm
When you try so hard to put the best efforts then you shouldn't blame yourself for failing.it maybe something else that is with-holding you from doing your best.maybe you're suffering from ADD(attention deficit disorder) which is not due to your psychology but due to the physiology of your brain.contact a good pschiatrist,some medications like ritalin for a therapeutic use can cure your problem and try to avoid to bad and negative thoughts,they'll deteriorate yourself because negative thoughts physically harm you by increasing cortisol amount in your blood.well be happy and take care of yourself.i think you're the genius guy.best of luck.
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