Beating Shyness and Introversion?

2013-07-03 2:06 pm
Hi. I just want advice here, not professional, just personal. I am shy. I am trying to beat it, but I can't. I want to talk to that person or be friends with people, but when I go there, I just change my mind. I imagine and fantasize that I am joking with them and that I am a really good friend, but all of that goes away when I go there. I would think that I'll never be a close friend of them. I cannot joke, I really can't think of any joke. If anyone experienced such thing or even wanted to help me, please do so. Thanks.

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2013-07-03 2:30 pm
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2014-08-03 6:47 pm
Hey,
There are many books and resources about anxiety, social phobia, etc. (I think I bought all of them). A good resource you can try is this online program (audio files ebook). It's helping me a lot (I suffer from sever anxiety disorder myself). http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=296
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2013-07-03 2:21 pm
yeah I do feel similar ways when I meet with people, like I am being shy or afraid to talk about things. I am more of a introvert, too. to overcome shyness and introversion, it's kinda hard, though. same for me. when I tried to, or ever want to speak to someone, shyness gets me, ouch
I am being introvert...but I know if I can overcome shyness, my life will become better and brighter, and prosper...but that's just my theory. I think sometimes it's kinda scary when someone I am not familar with starts up a conversation with me. and I don't like to talk to strangers, it's scary and it's weird. I am being introvert, so I don't like talking to people either, I am afraid to start up the conversation...I am just afraid. and those are my real feelings.


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