My life, need help? Thanks you?
2013-06-28 4:10 am
Ok here I go, so I'm 14 year old boy right now. Anyway, my parents just divorced which kinda sucks, my dad drinks a lot and he said he's gonna quit but I still find beers hidden. I have a best friend that I like to hang out with a lot and a few other friends on occasion. My mom thinks I don't spend enough time with my family. When I'm at her house I kinda just like to stay in my room and play guitar a lot. I like being alone and cherish it, but she thinks its bad for me. I feel sad a lot and I'm aggregated very easily by my brother. Recently me and my friend have began smoking tea and have dreamed of weed. I got some and were planning on smoking it, don't tell me not to cuz I am and my minds set. Anyway I just want someone to talk to about my life and stuff and is liking being alone like that normal? Thanks.
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2013-06-28 4:48 am
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you can spend more time with your family, if you wish.it's good that you have friends. see if they have got any good advice to give you.
you can try to explain your mum that you want to stay in your room and playing guitar feels good.
you mentioned you are aggregated very easily by your brother, that's bad. I don't think there's anything you can do about it. you can try changing your thoughts by putting your mind into something else, say playing the guitar. that'll make u feel better. being alone is just normal, sometimes being alone isn't that bad, you just have to figure it out sooner or later.
2013-06-28 11:58 am
Of course being alone is normal
Tell me one person who constantly needs to be with other people or who constantly needs to communicate with people.
If you do know someone like that, then they have some sort of mental disorder! Its healthy to be alone,
Then again its also healthy to be around people (not online, REAL LIFE)
you could always try getting a job and then save the money and so what you like with it,
travel, visit some other family, go shopping with people, throw a party, etc..
Tell me one person who constantly needs to be with other people or who constantly needs to communicate with people.
If you do know someone like that, then they have some sort of mental disorder! Its healthy to be alone,
Then again its also healthy to be around people (not online, REAL LIFE)
you could always try getting a job and then save the money and so what you like with it,
travel, visit some other family, go shopping with people, throw a party, etc..
2013-06-28 11:45 am
If im the only one that tells you this..from someone who started smoking weed at your age...it is NOT worth it. If you think you have problems with your family now wait until you start smoking weed awhile then you'll REALLY have problems. It aint worth it bro, your sad and frustrated do something you like, play that guitar but don't get into weed. You still have a chance at a normal life, don't mess it up. it aint worth it!!!!
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