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Well, it's great you that have the ability to be loud and extroverted. Pretend like it's a muscle. Go ahead and flex those muscles whenever you want to or whenever you feel like it.
On the other hand, being introverted might be your natural state, which is not bad at all. Now, if you're introverted and you don't like talking with others, you aren't being bold whenever you need to, you're not standing up for yourself, etc. that's bad.
Go ahead and allow yourself to be introverted if it's easiest for you. You want to be sort of a hybrid though. You should have a strong, powerful "extrovert muscle" that you can summon instantly. You'll use it whenever you have to stand up for yourself, be bold, raise your voice, say "no", etc.
Then, you want your natural, free flowing introverted state. You don't feel the need to be in the presence of others and you talk in a low voice, yet you are aware of your surroundings and the people you interact with. You speak slowly with confidence, and your thoughts, words, and actions are all aligned. You are happy with yourself, you do not care what others think or say, but you're curious about them and about the world. You breathe slowly, act calm and focused in all situations, and feel a great power within you. You are your own man, nobody can make you flinch, and when you need to, you have the ability within you to be loud, aggressive, and loose.
Hope this helps.