Is our own life suppose to be an open book for everyone?

Yes.

It should only be an open book to the people closest to you. Not for the whole world. And the reason why people do talk about others all the time is because they can't control their own tongue so it happens. We can't control other people. We only control ourselves. Some people just don't have that self control they did.

It is your choice if you want it to be or not.

Nah, it isn't. It's not suppose to be an open book because we've our privacy.
you can choose to live your own lives without em' going on... at the end of the day it's entirely up to you. you can choose to do whatever you wish. the other people are mean when they tried to stuck into other people's business and it will do no good, so it is best for em' to just mind their own business, many of em' won't listen and keep interfering with other people's lives, which is terrible.
anyways, you can live your own life without any other people interfering, you don't have to listen to what other people said, just be yourself and you'll be fine.

You have to be smart in what it is you reveal.
Be an open book to someone who can help/advise you or to someone whom you can help. Be an open book to your spouse.
Do not be an open book to someone who cannot help you. You'll realize that it's a complete waste.

Be smart :)

Only if that is what you choose for yourself.

My life does belong to me. I can't control what other people do, I can only control myself.

Your focus in in the wrong place and on the wrong things. You care what others think and say about you, for you it's a BIG, BIIIIIIG deal; for me, it's not.

You let others control your life because of it...you're more worried about pleasing others (to keep them from talking about you or not liking you) than living your life; but that is your CHOICE.

Next question, why do you think that you are so special or important to other people that you are the constant focus of all their attention? Most people don't give two fly specks about you, until you choose to call their attention to you.

Hi Cross,

No I was hoping for some break throughs for others

like Michael J. Fox talking about Parkinson's.

by talking about my illness ?

Best not to talk about them if you want privacy.

Good Luck.

Best Wishes.

Mars Mission Soon In A Galaxy Near Yours..

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