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Being "passionate" is the polarity of being "controlled." If you become out-of-control with a passion, it tends to become "obscured." A balance of joy and formality, what the ancients termed the Dionysian and Apollonian, is usually the way one finds one's true passion.
For example: if you formalize your passion for writing, you will devote a certain period of time every day to writing. That formality or routinization actually helps your passionate expression.
Sources: For Couples Only, Shaunti Feldhahn, shows how to nurture a relationship (passion in that sense).
The Answer You're Looking for Is inside You, Mark Prophet, likewise, re self's moods and efforts.
Creation: Artistic and Spiritual, Omraam Aivanhov, does so for creativity.
Nineteen Ways of Looking at Wang Wei, Weinberger and Paz, gives a particularly helpful example.
Meditation
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_meditation http://www.freemeditations.com http://www.jackkornfield.com offers a gentle, general means of balancing passion and form, via observing without adding affect one's waking subconscious' emotions and thoughts (passions and forms).