I really don't feel Happy?

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[匿名]

2013-04-04 5:21 pm

I feel selfish answering this question because I know there is a lot more worse off people in the world who have no food, clean water, etc.

But I have food, clean water, basic needs. I don't feel happy about life and I wake up not wanting to get out of bed everyday. Everyday is a drag and I cry myself to sleep. My mum and dad own a horrible run down hotel which we are struggling with. We struggle to pay bills at the end of the month and we are in lots of debt. I'm scared we will be kicked out. My mum and dad are always busy as we can't afford workers and they never pay any attention to me. I have no friends appart from two girls who I sit at lunchtime with, but three is a crowd and I always feel left out. To solve me being lonely, my mum and dad got me a dog. I love my dog to bits and she is amazing but extremely hard work as we have to take her out for a walk 5 times a day, for about an hour each time. My mum and dad keep arguing with me because she needs too much attention and they keep saying they will get rid of her but I love her so so so much and she is my only friend? My mum and dad have never shown any affection towards me, they love my two older brother and sister but hate me. I feel I was an accident, never to be born. They never hug me, congratulate me if I do well in a test, or not even say 'i love you' etc... sometimes I get nothing for Christmas/Easter/Birthday but that doesn't bother me, i'd prefer to have love. My mum ALWAYS blames me for things and shouts at me constantly, sometimes she throws hard stuff at me and it hurts.

At school I get bullied and laughed at. I am fat and ugly and stupid and I hate myself so much. I wish I could have a friend so I can share my feelings etc. I have constant thoughts and visions of me killing myself but I don't have the guts to do it. I really hate my life, I feel so weird that I am sharing my life with a stranger, but I have no where else to go. Everyone hates me, I hate myself, I don't know what to do.

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For got to say, i'm a 14 year old Girl and I don't get the point of life. I don't see a future for myself and I think the world would be a better place without me.

回答 (4)

[匿名]

2013-04-04 8:52 pm

listen...ive got enough problems of my own and i wasnt put on this earth to cry everyday

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[匿名]

2013-04-04 6:21 pm

You're not in a good place are you? Firstly, your dog loves you unconditionally. I own dogs but only need to take them out twice a day if that; they are more than happy to run round the garden and then sleep. Perhaps she doesn't need that many walks but by doing it, you are escaping your problems. The children at school who are bullying you; tell a teacher you trust; so they can support you and try and solve the problem. Bullying is NOT acceptable wherever you live and it needs to be dealt with.
Have you tried doing small jobs to help your parents with the business, or even making dinner. Just little gestures to help them, even running a bath for mum might help. Your parents recognise you are lonely by buying you a dog; a dog needs attention and, I guess it stops you being underneath their feet, so I can't understand why they are saying they'll get rid of her. You need to think of positive things. What would you like to do when you finish high school? Don't feel left out with the two girls who are your friends either; share with them or even arrange to see each of them on their own so you can build a relationship with both of them. Is there another person you could introduce to your group of 3 to even it up?
You life will get better, even if it's rubbish now. Your dog would not be better without you and nor would your parents or siblings. Have you spoken to them about how you feel? If they're older then they may be able to relate to how you feel and help you. If younger, then perhaps your parents know they need to spend more time with them and don't realise how you feel. Perhaps write a letter or a poem to them so they know how you feel? Speak to a teacher or a counsellor at school for advice. It's always better to talk about problems as then you realise that others feel the same way as you. A problem shared is a problem halved.

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healer

2013-04-04 5:34 pm

Listen kid, I am ugly too and my life had suck for a while but I am trying to work things out
Try joining a new club and make some new friends, the real one.
Try to be charitable, like helping people, hopefully they will love u back
make new friends, talk with them, chat with them, help them if they need any.
after helping out other people, those people might give u the things that u always want to have
say because u help them out, they may decide to give u a gift as a token of goodwill.
so don't get discouraged. There are lots of good people in this world that are willing to help each other. You say you are struggling to pay bills/in debt. Work hard at your studies, get top grades, enter uni, get a wonderful job, earn big money, and then it will fix the problem.
Life is rough, I know, your life may not be perfect but you can make the best out of it. Ask yourself what is your dream? You want to be a good dancer? singer? musical performer? play guitar/violin?
No matter what you do, try your best, put all your efforts into it. Not only will you receive money, but you will also gain respect and make amazing friends along the way. You will be rewarded for your hard work, so don't get discouraged if things turns out bad, it is only temporary, and it will pass.
Just keep working hard at it(your studies/your job) and you are good to go :)
You will be rewarded for your hard work, i.e. good grades, good return, etc.
You don't have to be handsome to have someone to like you; it is what you do that matters.
It is your action that counts/ticks the clock(time). Look the clock is ticking so make good use of the time to do good things, like contributing to the society, dedicate yourself to help others, e.g. do voluntary work and giving money to the poor,i.e. the beggars/lonely walkers on the street begging u for your help Help these people and you will see yourself properly returned spirtually
you can also donate money to charity organizations or do some charity work
Good luck sis and may the force be with you :)

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[匿名]

2013-04-04 5:29 pm

who feels happy anymore?

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