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Sweetie, you make the effort to go to the gym, but don't put an effort to want to be with your friends. The way I see it is that friends all has to make an effort to do their part on a friendship. Every time you have a choice to go where they're at, you turn it down, maybe that's why you think they don't want to be your friend anymore, it's because they think you don't want to be their friend anymore either.
Look, it's hard when your friends are away from you. I know, I have friends from all over, from Hawaii to Ohio. I live in Las Vegas, dear. =/ If what you're going through is hard, image the difficulty I'm going through. If I wanted to see my friends, I have a 5 hours to drive to look forward to or I have to take a flight which will cost me more then $500. Now, you can imagine my disappointment. You, however, has an advantage to be a driving distance from your friends.
This is what you can do. 1) When you get the chance to hang out with your friends, don't turn it down! 2) You arrange your friends to see YOU, host a party, a BBQ, or a potluck, pool party or movie night at your place. 3) Meet them halfway, compromise on where you guys can hang out, a place where they will have to drive the same distance as you would. These are only a few things that you guys can do. You can't just let your friends do all the work into being your friend, you also need to be theirs, too. Your friends are as human as you are, hun, they also need to know that you still want them to be around.
If they don't want to do what you suggested to hang out, then you need new friends. Except, make friends that are closer to you. And again, make the effort of wanting to hang out.
I hope this helps :)