5知點解嗰fd 5理我T^T

2013-04-02 6:31 am
之前我激嬲左嗰fd
咁我就諗住揾佢嗰fd幫下手la~
我叫佢(細我一年嘅)幫手問佢d嘢la
佢開頭都幫嘅~
不過近牌就開始想5幫我
跟住我就係咁求佢la
跟住突然有一日佢就開始5理我la t^t
我都5知點解...
會5會係我煩到佢呢...
佢on嗰陣我就問佢點解咁對我la~
佢連睇都冇睇...
我真係5知點好...
佢平時都會理我ga><
佢會5會因為覺得我好似理用緊佢 所以就5理我ar??
咁我e+應該點好ar??
佢連應都5應我...
我真係5知點好...
佢係咪會覺得我好煩所以5理我??
唉~佢之前都5會咁ga...
佢覆左我一句._________________.之後就5理我la....
連睇都5睇...
咁點算...

回答 (4)

2013-04-03 12:15 am
✔ 最佳答案
如果你真系好想同翻比你激嬲既fd挽翻既話呢.
就應該自己主動去同佢講.
依賴人地系冇用嫁wo.
你或者主動同你個fd講翻聲對唔住.
佢可能會同翻你挽.
或者直接同佢講一d佢中意既話題.

第二樣:
你自己做錯既野就應該自己補償翻既:)
雖然佢第一次系會幫你.
但系佢未必次次都會幫到你.
或者佢真系覺得你煩.
你可以自己同佢講:)
如果你冇勇氣去向佢講既話呢.就可以用文字代替:)
你應該靠自己去同佢和好嫁ma^^
記住要有誠意!:)加油!

以上解答希望可以幫到你啦^^
2013-04-03 9:56 pm
很多時候,人都會被自己的想法所侷限
這時,你應該要用新的角度去思考
這樣問題才能解決

因為很多問題起因
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2013-04-02 11:23 am
just let you know, there's sth called peer influence. people, especially teens, are very likely to be influenced by the thoughts and behavior of their peer. this could be what is happening to this friend you are talking about.
to be honest, this is an issue between you and your friend, and now you are including a third person in it. i mean, it's understandable that you want help from common friends to sort this out, but it doesn't always work. it is, after all, a problem between you and your friend and it should be solved between you two.
i think what you can do now is leave both of them alone for a good while of time, but still remain kind and polite to them. for example, greet them whenever you see them, and maybe have some small/short conversations, but DON'T keep going on and on, that will make them think that you are annoying.
i have been through this, and in my case, almost all my friends suddenly hated me and i have no idea why (i believe that it's because i annoyed them too much). i know there's nothing i can do in that period of time, so i leave them alone to calm down, and miraculously after a few months before the school year ends, they started talking to me again and we are still very good friends now (this happened 6 years ago). i believe what happened is that they have calmed down from whatever made them angry, and they saw that i am not how they thought i were, so they accept me again!
i understand that it's hard to go through this. what i did was to focus on other thing, like music (i love music). whenever i play music, or even just listen to music, it makes me forget everything i worried about. also, being a Christian, i go to church and that is the most comforting place for me in that period of time!^^
2013-04-02 7:49 am
如果你係對佢好嘅,我想你應該順其自然,多给一點空間別人,當他悶悶不樂時,你就盡量去鼓勵他,如果佢仲係唔理你,佢可能好忙,for example:girl friends,
bad friends and so on.你可以嘗試問佢有乜煩惱,令佢知你係好朋友

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