✔ 最佳答案
Well, from asking this question, it becomes obvious, that you have lived long enough to realize, that the common urge for happiness can't be fulfilled through what is offered in our society. The reason for this simply is, because the given goals and values, that are established within this society, are erroneous. We are living in a fake reality, that is based on interpretation and mostly misinterpretation of what we encounter in daily life. This started from the beginning of humankind and has only changed in so far, as the concepts about what needs to be explained, are more sophisticated, intellectual and spiritual. What doesn't mean that these are *true*! In our state of evolution, we are still in a limited state of consciousness and the same as in the beginning of humankind, we are still bound to a primitive survival need. *True happiness* can't be found by the fulfillment of expectations coming from ones personality, this is an illusion and part of the scam in that humanity is involved. *Happiness* as a state of *being* can only be the result of a *growing* process, in that the individual goes beyond ones scam when living in this fake reality, mostly because all are slaves of their mindset. - Out of this question there will show up doubts about what until now seemed to be so usual and common. Then you might ask more questions... But watch out, be very critical about from where the answers are coming and what seems to be right for you...
Be aware, that you are still bound to your mindset and you are just trying to fit answers into this. But the *real* answers will go beyond any concepts and so the same with *true happiness*...