唉;我真係唔知點..真係覺得自己好無用

2013-04-01 4:12 am
我都唔知而家點算好..
我一直都係一個成績好差, 無乜朋友既人. 我成個中學成績全級參唔多都係最差果幾個..一直都無咩心機讀書掛住玩, 我爸爸媽媽見我讀得咁差就叫我去澳洲讀睇下有無好轉,, 我去之前見好多人讀書讀得幾好我就覺得會好易,同埋我目光真係好短視..果陣短視到我想去係因為唔想再比人罵果次exam成績咁差 (因為佢地覺得都離開香港,香港d成績唔洗理),所以我先好傻咁去左. e+ 黎到 你都估到啦..一樣係超懶唔讀書..英文好多唔識自己唔去搵,讀左2個月唔想再讀,, 其他人點勸我讀都係無用..任何方法都係無用..就算係我鍾意既人勸.完全無動力 e+就只有等死..?完全唔知e+點算好..日日俾人罵唔做野真係想死..根本無心機做..

仲有我一直係唔敢講野既人,所以我一直只係 用wtsapp同d fd傾計..可能我自己平時做野比較傻,佢地好似都唔多想同我講野, 剩係我係咁講我既野比佢聽,佢地又唔講自己既野比我聽..只係hea答我.有活動都緊係唔會搵我啦.就算我之前成日搵佢講野.如果我1個月唔搵佢佢都唔會黎問下我咩事..唉..都唔知幾時有個真心既朋友..大家可以互相傾下大家既野傾下心事咁.. 我係咁搵人傾計都係咁..真係好攰好灰..乜野都做唔到..朋友又無,,讀書又無心機讀狂比人罵..乜都做唔成

回答 (11)

2013-04-01 10:19 am
✔ 最佳答案
其實你會唔會覺得讀書唔係你既興趣? 聽你咁講, 你係香港讀書同飛左去澳洲讀書根本係冇分別, 都係無心向學。因為如果一樣野唔係你最想做既, 你當然冇心機做。而且就算係玉皇大帝下凡都勸你唔到, 明白嗎?

有冇諗過自己鍾意嚮往既生活係咩? 等死係好傻既做法, 生存係呢個世界上有好多值得你做既野。係未搵到你鍾情既事之前, 先唔好講話一死就一了百了可以嗎? 我諗你而家仲好年輕(@@起碼未過30), 對嗎?

人際關係係件好複雜既事來, 雖然而家科技咁發達, 但係我個人覺得如果一個人同你唔係好fd既, 都唔會話成日搵你, 多數傾一陣計就做返自己野咁。所以呢, 朋友有幾多都好, 真正既知己朋友都唔係咁易搵架。我自己間中都有同人傾計, 但係我個性比較宅, 有dd自我, 通常人地傾既話題我都唔太了解。大多數時間都係到發呆(zzz...), 或者講下一兩句咁。

講完自己, 不如講返你。只係透過一小段文字了解你情況, 可能有d唔準確, 不過講下我既感想。其實唔洗太介意人地點睇你(我本身有d厚面皮?_?), 你可能覺得佢地心裡或者會咁睇你, 但你可以扮唔知a_a, 大方d敞開自己心胸, 唔好咁怕羞知唔知? 至於我唔係好清楚你d朋友鍾意d咩, 你同佢地既對話係咩。不過而家d人呢, 真係無事不登三寶殿。側面反映其實你我之間關係唔太親密, 屬最表面個種朋友關係。
不過你可以試下咁做, 試下跨過whatsapp呢巨溝, 唔好靜係停留文字互動。我自己真係唔太鍾意訊息交流, 因為如果對方係個懶人, 或者貴人事忙, 都唔知要等幾耐先可以覆返我一次(=-= 我冇乜耐性)。同埋一次短訊講得幾隻字(最長140字), 真係好短啊覺唔覺= =? 要真係同一個朋友深交, 最好多d約出街一齊玩, 或者得閒打下電話。呢種面對面方式, 最直接迅速回應到對方, 大家既關係自自然然又唔同左, 比起齋whatsapp(dry)來講滋潤得多。

人生既意義要自己去探索先會覺得有趣。比人罵固然唔係滋味, 但人係為自己而活, 唔好太在乎人地點諗, 就唔會有咁多悲觀既諗法。你而家需要一個豁達既想法去思考。之前睇一個節目我覺得有句野好搞笑, 又好正面:「天空飄來五個字, 那都不叫事」, 你用普通話讀下keke。

最後, 記著, 天空係藍色既^^。

2013-04-01 23:43:01 補充:
揸車係一門技能, 唔係賽車要同人比賽。最重要係安全至上, 你揸得好都係要注意安全, 揸得唔好都係要注意安全。所以揸車要做好安全揩施, 盡量將危險減到最低。
其實係咪一定要學揸車, 我認為唔一定。而家交通咁發達, 隨便搭d大眾交通都可以去到想去既地方。自己揸車最大優點係方便, 鍾意旅遊既人可以選擇自駕遊。最後我都係覺得揸車唔太環保。
如果話興趣只有打機, 實際上而家都有唔少人化興趣為職業, 專業做同遊戲相關既行業, 有冇考慮過呢行?
2013-04-12 6:35 pm
古人話: "天生我材必有用", 暫時未知自己的才能, 就更應該讀好書, 裝備好自己, 機會係留比有準備的人架!
2013-04-12 5:08 pm
你好, 朋友 :
人生係好擴闊的, 不要將自己一直劃係一個框框當中.
無錯, 可能你自己覺得讀書唔得, 無心機.
其他野你又覺得無咩用.
但我想比你知道, 每個人都一定有佢既優點.
加上, 一個人如果想改變, 就更加唔好放棄自己, 一開始就預定所有野都唔得, 無可能.
因為如果這樣預定自己, 咁你一定永遠都會在這光境.

其實你的前路是可以一片光明, 人生有更多野係值得你去追尋的.
支持你丫. 只要你唔放棄, 你一定找到出路.

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2013-04-11 11:55 pm
我同其他野完全無興趣 打機外..
學車都無用,渣得點好都無用,太勁又危險..

你咩都唔想做,時間可以解決一切zzZZZzzZzZzZ
2013-04-07 5:49 am
首先好欣賞你將你嘅難處同我地分享...
有時候我地都唔知道自己個個決定係適唔適合自己嘅...
不過其實你而家係香港定係外國架?

有時候要有動力...
都要睇吓自己係咪真係鍾意做個樣野嘅...
或者讀書未必係啱你呢...

見你話想揾人可以同你傾吓偈..
如果你唔介意的話..
可以add我msn/facebook架..
睇吓係讀書或者其他方面...
有無野可以幫到你丫...

我叫Anna..
[email protected]
2013-04-04 12:04 am
可以做個朋友嗎?=]

可以係我個人資料到加我=]
2013-04-02 11:07 am
so what i understand here is that, you are interested in computer games. maybe you will also be quite interested in computer technology?i believe that to be interested in learning, you have to find your interested first. what you really have to do now is to find your interest instead of being depressed.
i have also moved to Canada to study; my reason is to be exposed to more different subjects and opportunities. and here i find my interests, which was very different from what i thought when i was in HK. you can see going to australia as an opportunity for you to find your interest!
and same as you, i am not a talkative person (though i love to write). when i first came to canada, i was totally silent and didn't have any friends until almost the end of my first year there. sometimes, when your friends don't respond to you as you expected, it might only because that they are same as you--not talkative. and for the activities, i have know this group of friends for a while year and they still don't usually include me in their group activities. i know it can be really depressing, but you need to know it's not your fault!
i think if you really want to be included in the group more, find the common interest among all of you. like, you like computer games, i am sure at least some of them like computer games too. it's always hard to be included in a group, especially when you are the new person. just don't lose hope and keep on going! i have became super close friend with this one person in the group and have lunch with them every day, and they actually started include me more in the conversation and activities!
if you are desperate to make more friends, i suggest volunteering. usually the volunteers are very willing to be friends with you. i have made my few first friends through this!

2013-04-02 03:08:07 補充:
i am really sorry that i have to type this in English... my chinese is never good enough to write a whole passage to express myself>
2013-04-01 10:30 pm
很多時候,人都會被自己的想法所侷限
這時,你應該要用新的角度去思考
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2013-04-01 8:26 pm
最緊要是你要盡力和合格.和樓上一样盡力而為
不要自X.你現在就像大海漂浮.
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2013-04-01 6:47 am
天無絕人之路,有時諗野唔好甘灰,唔想讀書,可以學一門手勢,好似學車或者玩吓music,好似夾band,又或者做吓義工,5好覺得自己無用,每一個人都系獨一無二架,總會有自己優點同缺點...其次我認為屋企人幾鍚你啦送你去澳州讀書,而可能你同屋企人仲有商量的餘地呢,除左學校朋友,亦都可以透過打波/參加活動去識一d朋友,如果你想揾人傾計都可以搵我架,fb:[email protected] or add my email to chat:[email protected]

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