Possible for a best friend to turn into your worst enemy?
2013-03-08 3:48 am
I had a best childhood friend. When we were little we used to do everything together play with toys, and play outside. Once we hit middle we still were best friends we played video games together, went camping, hiking, canoeing, ect... Basically our friendship lasted up until hs. He started hanging with the wrong crowd and started doing very heavy drugs. Now we are worst enemies. We hate each others guts. Its almost like we are destined to be enemies. So my question is. Is it possible for a best friend to turn into your worst enemy ? If so why does this usually happen ? Does anyone have a similar experience of a best friend turning into your worst enemy... Thanks!
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2013-03-08 3:56 am
yes its possible, i think it happens because people change and there new personality might not be what the other friend wants to be around and it gets them angry. i had a best friend in 4th grade and are friendship lasted till 7th grade we did everything together then one day she stopped talking to me. after we weren't friends i was angry because i was confused why she would just stop talking to me and hated her guts still do. and i found out literally 3 days ago she never liked me. not even in 4th grade which makes me really sad because i don't know what i did
2016-08-06 6:55 pm
If by some good rationale any individual becomes a friend with yet another, it is impossible to grow to be their enemy in a while. That's one secret of love! Have a good day Sydney! From Jimmy.
2015-10-23 1:13 am
Definitely possible! One of my childhood best friend used to be so close to me that we were like twins and at one point of my life, she bullied me hardcore :'(
2013-03-08 11:54 pm
Very. I knew a girl who was my best friend from kindergarten to eighth grade. She always was a bit bossy, but once we hit highschool she became extrememly manipulative and condescending. I made other friends since she wasn't in my class and she resented me for. She wanted to be my only friend, she'd try to guilt me into skipping lunches and already arranged with other friends only to ignore me the whole hour and scold me like a little kid whenever I made a joke. I knew this person for 9 years. Its sure we always had our differences, but I was tired of being controlled and sometimes differences become a lot more prominent as we grow and change and drift a part. I can barely look at this girl anymore, she loathes me equally. Its rather sad but yes this can happen very easily.
2013-03-08 4:10 am
nothings impossible
2013-03-08 3:58 am
Of course it's possible.
The reason being usually is a difference in personality and the choosing of different paths in life. As you said, your friend chose to go down a very dangerous path of drugs. Also, sometimes a friendship means more to one the other and often times that will end in the more caring person getting hurt.
Misunderstandings are often a cause of this. People believe what they want to believe and sometimes that isn't always the truth.
It's best to just distance yourself from this person. Avoid him when necessary and find more friends who are worth your time.
The reason being usually is a difference in personality and the choosing of different paths in life. As you said, your friend chose to go down a very dangerous path of drugs. Also, sometimes a friendship means more to one the other and often times that will end in the more caring person getting hurt.
Misunderstandings are often a cause of this. People believe what they want to believe and sometimes that isn't always the truth.
It's best to just distance yourself from this person. Avoid him when necessary and find more friends who are worth your time.
參考: Life
2013-03-08 3:55 am
Yes. You can easily become enemies
2013-03-08 3:52 am
Ou better believe its possible. Happens so much I almost give up on friends. Friends make the worst enemies because they have lots of ammunition. They know your secrets. Its very possible. Almost probable, if you want loyalty get a dog....be your own best friend. People stink.
2013-03-08 3:49 am
Yes.
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