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Joel Osteen is a false teacher and/or prophet. He says things to bring in the biggest crowd, he says there are many ways to God. He is more of a motivational consultant then anything else. He is very simular to Oprah who has stated the same things.
as for yourself you should rely on the scriptures and not necessarly a feeling you might get from a group of people. you should be going to a church that has bible study of the full bible every verse. a church that has it's doctrines in line with the scriptures.
but at 14 yrs old I dont see how kids would be very motivated for church. You mother sounds like the wind - blowing here and then there and not very solid on what she believes.
ultimatly you should have a good understanding of both sides of any church and their doctines. google and read up on both sides of every issue and understand why both sides look at it the way they do. Then you can have no mistakes in your beliefs.