Astrology- Synastry chart?

Umm I suggest you post a Synastry chart

Better to have an aspect than no aspect. the aspect can create tension but with Venus, how much tension can there be out of 2 beneficial planets ? There is a way to work at it positively and get the most. Eventually, you will fix the square so that when it does come around a second time, you will be prepared. If there are no Venus aspect in a happy couple, their must be some aspect between Mars and Venus which is more important. There might be aspects between these Venus and the other person's Ascendant, or Sun, or other planets. Its hard to relate to one aspect without considering the totality of the chart.