Should I friend dump her?
2013-02-20 11:57 am
I've been sorta friends with this girl for a couple months and she seemed at the time pretty normal but yesterday she pulled me out of class hysterically crying saying she wanted to go home. And then as I was driving she told me to call her dad, who lives in Hawaii, and tell him that she's scared for her life. I don't know what kind of stuff she's into but if it's that serious that you are scared that someone will harm you I don't think she should be doing it. I talked to my Mom and she said that I shouldn't talk to her anymore because I shouldn't have to be put in a situation where I might get in trouble because other than a speeding ticket I have never had anything bad on my reputation or police record. She on the other hand has been in and out of jail for the past couple months or years. I don't want anything that she's into to affect me as selfish as selfish as that sounds. I would like to keep my pure image for as long as humanly possible.
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2013-02-20 12:06 pm
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Its not selfish to want to keep a clean record. If she had changed and cleaned up i would say no keep her as a friend but if she is going to get you into trouble or possibly put you into a situation that could be life threatening for you as well then you have to do whats best for you. I would talk with your schools therapist/couns. And tell them the situation so they can hopefully intervene and get the professional help that she may require to be protected or even help her in her life. She will probably get extremely pissed off at you for telling someone but you have to think would you prefer a friend who might get you in trouble and who is in those "life threatening" positions who might end up hurt or jailed again or someone who is mad at you because you were doing the right thing and wanted to help them
2013-02-20 8:04 pm
This person is bad news. Don't get caught up in her craziness. You didn't mention your age but you did say she's been in and out of jail. You are not being selfish, just smart, and its called self preservation. If it doesn't feel right is isn't right-listen to your gut. You sound like a nice person and that may be why you befriended her in the first place-but first and foremost you need to take care of yourself. People will come in and out of your life all life long-doesn't mean that because they've drifted in you have to keep them in you life-let her drift out of your life. You will be better off....believe me it is true.
2013-02-20 8:03 pm
You're right girl.
RUN
RUN
2013-02-20 8:01 pm
I think your so called friend needs to re-evaluate her life and find some real help. You are not it.
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