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There is pressure from multiple sources for girls to think about "how much does he make" as being a yardstick to compare, from popular culture in movies/TV to quite a few cultures making it a high priority for "family honor".
I did a long weekend vacation with a buddy with his Porsche Cabriolet convertible, where I even did more than half the driving. Pulled into a rest stop for a snack, and the girl at the food stand had seen us pull in and me getting out from behind the wheel, and I could see that she was actually starting to salivate from apparently being turned on by "my richness", and while I thought I had envied seeing that work for others, when it happened to me I was really disgusted--feeling like I was being reduced to a bank account number.
Sounds like you are making the right decision in running away.