I'm 13 and don't have a social life?
2013-02-19 1:37 pm
Ok so I just sit in my room all day sometimes on my laptop or playing the guitar. I don't have many friends. In school i have a couple of close friends but they don't live anywhere near me. I have a good friend who lives in my street who is a year older than me. We used to hang out a lot. But now she hangs about with these girls her age and me and the girls don't get on at all! Now I'm really depressed because I have no social life. All the popular people go out to town and have fun. My mum is worried that I'm becoming a loner (which I am). I'm afraid I will be forever alone :( . What can I do? Please help?
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2013-02-19 1:44 pm
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this happens to all people at some point of life.there is nothing to worry about it.there is a danger of you going into depression if you brood over the fact that you don't have many friends.just have some physical activity every day outside your home and it sets all the things back in order.it worked for me!
2013-02-21 9:07 am
Hi,I used to have no friends,I spent around 3 years on my own,I sat on a park bench and just thought what it would be like to have friends,DON'T DO THAT TO YOURSELF,If you want friends go make them and if you can't meet friends through other friends,don't punch yourself because your useless,you have at least another 50 years ahead of yourself,enjoy those years,cheer up,find a hobby,do after school clubs,go to clubs like rugby or football,don't leave yourself out to dry,I learnt that the hard way but now I want to help those like me,so read this and think about it :)
2013-02-20 10:47 am
When I was young, I have same case as you.(I was afraid having lunch alone when school lunch. Feeling weired and looking other school mate have fun.) But when u grow up , u will learn how to face lonely. No need to worry who looking. No need for meeting friends to being active. Learn entertainment by yourself. Btw, join music club is good idea for meeting people. It will probably feel some same interest friends. ;)
2013-02-20 4:30 am
A 13yr old does not need a 'social life'. Spending some time with friends, even at school, is enough.
2013-02-19 9:50 pm
That's exactly like me. Have you considered joining any clubs? I recently joined the Air Training Corps and met a load of new people who I've become good friends with. Try and find people on Tumblr, for example, who have similar interests.
2013-02-19 9:47 pm
Don't worry, you'll get many friends as you get older. :D I'm the same too, but I let life go on, and now I have a boyfriend and a few friends. I also wish I could go partying and stuff. There's nothing wrong with being a loner, *sigh* society. It doesn't mean your weird or anything, you're not alone. Some people don't have friends and they are very happy with their lifes. Don't get involved into society much.
Probably join some social networks if it really bothers you.
Probably join some social networks if it really bothers you.
2013-02-19 9:40 pm
you're 13 years old for gods sake! you're supposed to be at school, studying, not out getting drunk partying. join a youth club or some other "activity" group, it will allow you to meet more people and have something to do.
2013-02-19 9:39 pm
How about joining a guitar club or band? You may meet like minded people there.
2013-02-19 11:13 pm
I'm 13 too. I go to an all girls school, and I hate it. At my old school, I was one of the guys. Now, I'm stuck in a storm of drama, and "guy problems". As you guessed it, it sucks for me. I have 3 close friends. One of them lives near me, and the same one goes to my school. Don't get depressed, if you feel like you have no one to talk to, talk to me. Forget about the popular people. They are all fake. Why don't you join a band or try writing a couple songs? Oh and about the girl, it's something that a lot of the girls do. I was held back in kindergarten, and after that, all of my friends stopped hanging out with me. Just try to reach out a little more, maybe like, getting to know one of your friends friend.
Email me- [email protected]
We can set up a Skype call or something!
Email me- [email protected]
We can set up a Skype call or something!
2013-02-19 9:43 pm
You are just like me (I'm 15). Like dead on, but it gets better everyone falls into a funk. You will find out a few good friends are much better than a thousand strangers at a party. I use to be a shy and depressive, I told my friends that and they didn't believe me! Put yourself out there if you seem weird who cares? Normal people suck! And if you don't believe me, right now I'm up for homecoming queen, I have a boyfriend, and I'm about to have a few hundred people over for my 16th birthday. Be yourself, if people don't like it, who cares? I don't get up to impress you everyday!
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