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Have an online dating rules question ladies.女士們，有一個在線約會規則的問題。I know we are not supposed to message a guy first or wink etc.我知道我們不應該主動向男生發短信或示好(wink)之類的，But I can't find in any of the books if it's ok to surf and view profiles or if we are only supposed to view those who have viewed us or only view those who have emailed us.但我在任何的書籍上找不到，是否可以查看男生們的檔案，或者我們只應該查看先看過我們檔案的人的檔案，或只能查看那些已向我們發過電子郵件的人的檔案。Any help is appreciated. :) Thanks in advance! 感激您的任何幫助（回答）。 :)　先謝啦！
We have it in the new book,Not Your Mothers Rules, if your system will show the guy you viewed him then NO you can't, if it doesn't go ahead....! -E　我們的新書，＂不是你老媽的規則＂，有講到這個問題．如果你去的網站系統會自動顯示您瀏覽過這傢伙的檔案，那就不要去查．如果不會，那就去查吧....！ -Ellen
I just started reading it.我剛開始讀它（這本書）。So basically only view profiles IF they email first. Got it. Thank you bunches.所以基本上說：只能查他的檔案如果他先來電郵．明白了。謝謝你。My best friend (of 30 years) and I are doing "The Rules" together. 我的好友（30年的交情）和我正在一起讀你的“規則”。There's a lot to be said for the buddy system. (你們的)"好友系統"有很多很棒的東西值得一提。
Great, that's why we created worldwide contacts and dating coaches!! Buddy System is great....-E　太好了，這就是為什麼我們創建了全球聯繫網和約會教練系統！我們的好友系統是很棒的......-Ellen