比人改花名,what can I do?

事實上,被人改花名係一件好普遍同平常既事
不過,改花名其實都有唔同既情況~

第一,依位朋友係善意同只係親暱甘稱呼你
第二,依個花名有惡意,直接對你作出人身攻擊(eg,肥豬,樣衰等等)

係第一種情況下,
其實你朋友未必有惡意只係順口甘叫你既話,
但係你又好唔中意,
你應該直接同佢講清楚:我唔中意依個花名
甚至同佢講你中意人地點叫你
人地叫你都可以順口D,
假如佢唔合作,你就唔好應佢
比佢知道你真你好唔中意依個花名

如果你覺得個花名又無傷大雅,
其實你聽聽下就會慣嫁啦:)

係第二種情況下,
對你作出人生攻擊既花名,
其實都係欺凌既一種!
假如你同依位朋友好好感情
你可以用番第一種情況既方法表達反感
假如佢照樣甘叫你
其實真係欺凌一種!
你可以同師長講番依個問題
等社工或者其他人同你一齊解決
亦可以同其他人介紹自己中意既花名
大家叫叫下就會習慣左;唔會叫你唔中意既花名:)

希望可以幫到你啦;)

如果你好重視你d fd,你就要同佢地好好地講清楚.如果佢地係挽挽下,純碎笑下就算.咁你就可以當無事發生.

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Good luck!

2013-02-22 17:44:10 補充：
唔好理佢, 佢就冇癮!

唔好理佢,你愈嬲佢就愈得戚

My classmates say my nicknames too, but that doesn't matter. The important point is that you are not like this. If someone call your nickname as "Ugly Duckling", you are not a duckling, right? So don't mind what they say. If that's not true, don't need to be unhappy. Maybe they just want you to be unhappy, then you are their toy. And maybe sometimes they are just friendly calling, so please don't put it on your mind. Hope you understand.

你問得出這個問題姐係你對比人改花名係好唔開心,唔中意.我都試過
比識左6年ge好朋友改花名,係接受唔到囉!!!!!!
你諗下6年喎,仲係好朋友
你要再諗下應唔應該再同佢玩,做朋友
你一定要同佢講你唔鐘意佢改你花名，唔係ge話佢唔會知你唔鐘意架。
如果佢係無心ge,你自己諗下仲同唔同佢做朋友(話曬都係6年好朋友喎)

係學校同老師講
5鍾意就出聲
佢一定5知你嘅感受
5鍾意5好同佢做朋友
必要時可以同佢絕交5理佢
或者同屋企人講都得
亦都可以同你信得過嘅知心朋友/老師傾心事

2013-02-18 12:50:43 補充：
容忍都有個限度，如果佢嘅所作所為你已經接受5到，就大聲同佢講你嘅感受。

唔中意嘅話就要出聲，因為無人知你個心想點樣。

你應該講比佢聽你吾鐘意,佢再叫你再同佢講

如果佢冇說明係who
你可以5理佢
你應左=自應
小心比人話自應
如果佢有說明係你
你可以say比老C知
佢會幫你^.^

唔中意就出聲，無人知你心想點。

六年朋友都係敢話，我比人改唔少都無介意個。

你叫佢地改還改唔好改得太過份。始終把口生係人地度你阻止唔到佢地。