and stretch the truth even though the other person has done nothing wrong? Does this person like to pick on innocent users just for the fun it?
-191 Opposition Mercury - Pluto
She may be impatient. She likes contradiction. Her arguments are noisy and animated.
You are very incisive and aggressive with your opinions. You have a tendency towards fanaticism and often want to impose your ideas on others, sometimes in a subtle manner and sometimes more imperatively. You will find yourself attracted by the occult and other mysteries but it is recommended that you avoid those subjects because they can generate certain fixations or obsessiveness. You must learn to control your impatience and impulsiveness, to think things over before speaking, and to respect the weaknesses of others.
-65 Opposition Mercury - Ascendant
She may criticize and gossip, arguing frequently and ofen nervous. Without even realizing it, she might look for or instigate a verbal battle, and is provoking.
Communication is very important to you, and your mind is sharper and more creative when you have a partner you can bounce your thoughts and ideas off of. You are an excellent conversationalist and can fascinate your partners with your sharp mind. You love to debate issues just for the mental exercise, even if you don't feel strongly about the position you argue! You play devil's advocate often, and your ideal partner understands that your debates are, in fact, mental exercises--certainly not attacks! You are also prone to exaggerate or stretch the truth when trying to make your point, especially when it comes to your own background or experience.
Would this person be prone to making false accusations against another person just for the "sport" of it, and also to bullying innocent people and lying or using "dirty" tactics just to get others on their side?
Would somebody with Mercury opposite Pluto and ascendant tend to argue a lot?
2013-01-27 12:05 am
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2013-01-28 9:20 pm
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I hope I understand your aspects correctly. Your Pluto is conjunct your Ascendant and Mercury is in opposition to both your Pluto and Ascendant. Correct? Hope so.Since the aspects here are oppositions that means that these are relationship issues for you. Mercury is how we communicate with others. Pluto generally desires control and is a genius at manipulating others.
So I imagine the main issue is that you have issues with others regarding discussion. This isn't an easy aspect because Mercury oppose Pluto desires to have control of the conversation (generally) and also always desires to be 'right.' This easily causes problems in relationships because nobody can be 'right' all the time.
Pluto may WANT to be right all the time so I suggest that you begin to really listen to others opinions before you begin speaking. This is a life lesson that you need to work on in this lifetime. Learning how to cooperate and compromise and give others a chance to voice their opinion can completely turn this hard aspect into a 'learned' aspect and this will greatly improve your life.
And if you don't work on learning how to communicate 'fairly' in this lifetime then you will have to repeat this tough aspect in your NEXT lifetime. And you don't want that! We need to work on our tough aspects in THIS lifetime and overcome this Mercury/Pluto life lesson.
And sometimes this aspect can make one a bully because being right is so important to them. Pluto does love being right and having the control of a situation. But since Pluto opposes Mercury you are being shown that listening to what others have to say is a lesson for you in this lifetime.
Do your best to allow others to voice their opinions before you voice your opinion. Give some deep consideration to what others say and don't just blow them off because you disagree with them or believe that they are wrong and you are right. Learning to compromise is a huge life lesson because getting along with others requires an open mind and a willingness to listen to others instead of 'knowing' that you are always 'right.'
We learn much more by listening than talking. Know this is something you are to work on in this lifetime and get this tough aspect behind you so you can evolve into a better person. Love is why we are on this planet and in order to evolve we must overcome our tough aspects.
Because how can we show love to another when we feel we are always right and they are always wrong? Well, we just can't. So improving your communication skills by being a good listener and truly thinking about what another says will greatly improve your life in so many ways.
Hope this is helpful and good luck and bless you too. I wish you well.
參考: Amethyst33
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