I started texting this very popular "hot" guy Yesterday I met on a social networking site (dont judge)
he mentioned a few times via online that we should hangout since we're in the same state
and left me several compliments etc
but once we started texting he was really stiff, and seemed uninterested
even a little pretentious
i am a very straightforward person and am genuinely VERY interested in getting to know him as a person, so im ready to get together and see what happens as soon as possible
but..i have no idea if he even cares or how to make him interested,,,because i thought he was?
i know he's popular and everything but how can i tell if he's just keeping me in his little black book or if i should hold out for a chance?
Does he expects me to go after him since he's used to so much attention?
i just got a very condescending uninterested vibe from him
and idk if i should give up or say something about it
VERY mixed signals from this guy? (best answer 10pts)?
2013-01-20 7:54 am
回答 (4)
2013-01-20 7:58 am
✔ 最佳答案
I think you should fall back. It seems like he enjoys being chased... so it's time to show him you don't have time to do all of that and that he needs to pursue you. Popularity will only get you so far... he needs to keep your interest too. Just the fact that you are getting a "condescending uninterested vibe" from him should be enough to make you lose interest. The whole point is for the two of you to get to know each other, not to play cat and mouse. Good luck. Keep us updated as to how everything turned out!
2013-01-20 4:09 pm
It sounds like neither of you are each other's type. It might be Enticing to go out with the hot popular boy, But if he is boring or annoying to you, It will get pretty old pretty quick.
My advice is to find someone a little more your speed
My advice is to find someone a little more your speed
2013-01-20 4:07 pm
Hi Sasha,
My name is Blacklist VII, you've asked the right person to answer this question!
Dating is my expertise
According to my 20 years of past experience
you should cut off the text messages now, there is no point of falling for someone who you don't really know
and you should not meet anyone without really talking to the person.
For dating in general, try not to send too much texts to the guy you like, don't response immediately when you receive a text from him, that will just show you are very desperate.
all you should do is treat him like a friend, talk on the phone, get to know each other and keep the progress slowly before thinking of meeting each other.
Good luck
Blacklist VII
My name is Blacklist VII, you've asked the right person to answer this question!
Dating is my expertise
According to my 20 years of past experience
you should cut off the text messages now, there is no point of falling for someone who you don't really know
and you should not meet anyone without really talking to the person.
For dating in general, try not to send too much texts to the guy you like, don't response immediately when you receive a text from him, that will just show you are very desperate.
all you should do is treat him like a friend, talk on the phone, get to know each other and keep the progress slowly before thinking of meeting each other.
Good luck
Blacklist VII
參考: my brain
2013-01-20 4:03 pm
Listen from experience with helping many of my college female friends to pick a decent guy I can tell you seriously right now if a guy confuses you so much in a short amount of time or does everything perfectly but is a bit stand offish run quick cause you're about to be the next to get played.
But....
If you still want him that bad or whatever I suggest the mirror effect where you give what you get it sends off the signal that you are not going to be at his every beck and call and fawn over him just because he's used to attention. Because guys like him love the chase more than anything and think that if a girl can respond the same as him then she must be the equivalent to gold.
But....
If you still want him that bad or whatever I suggest the mirror effect where you give what you get it sends off the signal that you are not going to be at his every beck and call and fawn over him just because he's used to attention. Because guys like him love the chase more than anything and think that if a girl can respond the same as him then she must be the equivalent to gold.
參考: I was that guy and could still be him but it's gotten old and lonely
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