嗱，個title實激嬲唔少人，不過冷靜啲先
是咁的，大學啱啱完咗sem A，gpa都出得七七八八
呢幾日我驚到食飯都唔知咩味，因為sem A自己出左好大件事，冇睇reading冇溫書甚至同tutor請咗好多次假，見counsellor多過見老友
驚嘅原因唔係怕面懵，而係過唔到某個gpa會冇左獎學金，家陣我完全靠食果幾份獎學金為生，仲要貼錢畀屋企，成績好緊要
結果最低分嘅都係有group project嘅course
不過成績唔算差，爭啲啲入dean's list
原因首先year 1難極有限，其次周圍有好多綠葉
響合作緊時就已經好覺，班同學仔呀一係懶一係資質根本低，就算同佢哋講要點點點改，佢哋又覺好似我有心留難佢哋咁，意見接受態度照舊
兼夾我自己都顧唔掂，冇能力proof read到六個人份量嘅sh_t
直接/轉彎地去叫佢哋做好啲、改好啲，一齊望有咩唔掂嘅地方咁啦
但我發覺問題係：佢哋根本唔覺自己寫/做嘅嘢有問題
家陣做熟嘅嗰幾件，冇件做出嚟嘅嘢係擺得上枱，到底我應該點做好？
我寧願自己一個做六人份量嘅嘢都好過要同咁多個人慢慢解番佢哋知有乜問題
唔係夾唔夾嘅問題，係同系過半人嘅諗嘢、做嘢、學術水平頂盡只到CE level
如果gpa太低我係要陷家食風，有冇人可以教我點樣響唔得罪人同isolate自己嘅情況下誘導team mate做啲見得人嘅嘢出嚟？
直接啲問：如何同蠢人合作而唔影響自己嘅工作質量，同時維持和諧人際關係？
唔好彈咩「你好醒咩？」畀我，我都係普通人一件，sem A完全係行屍走肉mode，拉拉下curve拉到幾乎入dean's list，問題出響邊顯然而見
家陣已經唔係自大與否嘅問題，而係我已經唔知應該點樣響保住自己成績嘅同時唔得失任何人
個個都話大學幾free幾幸福，我就真係完全唔銀覺，我寧願乜都自己一腳踢好過依家咁呀
嚟緊仲有好銀多group work，點算好？？點算好？？
ps.非樹仁非三大
身邊啲人資質愚鈍好難合作做任何嘢
2013-01-07 3:21 am
回答 (3)
2013-01-13 6:58 am
✔ 最佳答案
睇到你既處境,知道GPA對你好重要,但就因為身邊既GROUP MATES搞到你好苦惱..但事實就係你上到大學...做GROUP PROJECT 始終係無法避免,(唔洗做PROJECT既COURSE 另計,但少之有少)
既然你話同系過半人嘅諗嘢、做嘢、學術水平頂盡只到CE level..咁姐係仲有一半人到啦..可能一半中有三分一去到AL 程度,可能三分一中既五分一去返DEGREE程度掛, 1個GROUP PROJECT最多咪6,7個人一組..你隨便痴去2,3個有料既人到就OK
直接啲答:就係去搵醒目仔黎維持工作質量..
我自己曾經都係過來人,希望你搵到,拎埋份獎學金拎1ST HON^^
2013-01-07 8:41 am
I understand your condition because I have common experience. Sem 1 is a
golden opportunity to understand more about personality of classmates, try to
discover their strength and weakness. If you had done above analyze, you
probably find better groupmates.
How to work with groupmates with weaker ability? My suggestion is identify his
strength. If you find his strength is absolutely not related to project, try to give
him the easiest task, such as searching information on specific area in deep. If
he can't complete easy task, better ask opinion from counsellor.
golden opportunity to understand more about personality of classmates, try to
discover their strength and weakness. If you had done above analyze, you
probably find better groupmates.
How to work with groupmates with weaker ability? My suggestion is identify his
strength. If you find his strength is absolutely not related to project, try to give
him the easiest task, such as searching information on specific area in deep. If
he can't complete easy task, better ask opinion from counsellor.
2013-01-07 6:23 am
好明白你既感受........................在下身邊正有這些"人士"
>資質愚鈍" 都唔係一個問題..唔肯做嘢...
叫又唔郁..踢又唔郁,
仲衰過豬頭嘅人,同钔一組,先係天上間最大嘅不幸...=/=ll
一係你試下同老師反映,早d講,等老師幫幫你..........
\
\我而家都等緊轉機.......希望弄次唔好拍着呢d人..
大前提你要做好自己,唔好煩............................每日做d對自己開心既事.
e.g.去玩.........................relax一下(but唔好學壞)
>資質愚鈍" 都唔係一個問題..唔肯做嘢...
叫又唔郁..踢又唔郁,
仲衰過豬頭嘅人,同钔一組,先係天上間最大嘅不幸...=/=ll
一係你試下同老師反映,早d講,等老師幫幫你..........
\
\我而家都等緊轉機.......希望弄次唔好拍着呢d人..
大前提你要做好自己,唔好煩............................每日做d對自己開心既事.
e.g.去玩.........................relax一下(but唔好學壞)
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