Was it wrong for me to do this?
Ok, I'm 13, and got suspended for the forth time. Fine. The other three things I did bad things, I took my shirt off, etc.
Im popular at school, peoole dont really want to mess with me either... Mostly out of fear. Im a girl btw, and am 5'2.
My little sister is 11, and is autistic. She was walking down the hallway saying stuff that did sound kind of.. Strange.. But then these guys my age in the corner laughing at her and mimicking her voice to me and called her "a retard" and then I completely lost it.
Both of the guys are 6"0 are football players. One boy
Broke his nose, and got a black eye, and the other boy chipped his tooth and got a fat lip.
The principal suspended me for 3 days, and the boys for 2 (for making the remarks) i dont realy care about the suspension. My mom is kind of.. Out of it and my brother is in juvie so she wont care, but im just annoyed because i really didnt want to get suspended-
回答 (10)
✔ 最佳答案
Fighting was the wrong thing to do but I probably would hav done the same thing. It was rly good of u to stand up for your sister and those guys rly deserved to get beaten up! Wow ur a party good fighter!!:) you shouldn't let those guys bully her though so it wasn't completely wrong, but you could hav handled it btr.
Yes, it was wrong. You got suspended, and what did getting in a fight solve? Nothing. The boys still made rude remarks, you were still offended, and on top of that you were suspended. It would have been the same situation if you had just ignored them, and you wouldn't have gotten in trouble.
I know life is tough and unfair, but you need to learn to control your anger or someday you'll pick a fight with the wrong person. Be smart.
Well, I can see it from both views. I can see that you were just trying to protect your sister because she has a medical condition. I'm just a awed how you can take down two guys that were so much bigger than you. It also seems that your family situation is not stable at the moment. If you didn't want to get suspended then why did you do it? You could have told the principle about it because it was rude of them to do it. I know that it did anger you a lot because they were making of someone you love. How about next time you try talking to an adult about it? So then, they can see that you have evidence and instead they can suspend the two guys. So..for heads up talk to the adult about the issue. I know it's annoying talking to adults and teachers but it saves you suspension or even from being expelled. Good luck.
I guess it wasn't wrong for you to defend your little sister this time but you need to control you're actions more.
If I was in your situations, I'd want to do the same thing. It probably wasn't the right thing to do considering the whole "violence isn't the answer" saying. If you would've just said hey, stop ******* doing that, and told on them then it would be better for you. Even though no one likes to be a snitch, it's better in the long run.
參考: My own experience
Your feeling defensive of your sister is commendable, but not justification to use violence. Yes, it was the wrong way to approach it.
I don't think you did wrong at all.The bible says to defend those you love. But you should have selfcontrol!!! I understand you. You don't mess with family nor me.
It's okay to protect your little sis, just try not to completely lose it, simpley tell them not to make fun or hurt her, then walk away
though violence is wrong,but i think you did a right thing.really good for you to look out for you sister.But next time don't do it this way,because there are many stupid people out there who like to laugh at others.you can't always solve that problem through violence.Sometimes you just need to ignore them.Just be yourself,don't let those stupid guys influence you
Nope good on you but next time do it where no teachers will see it
收錄日期: 2021-05-01 14:17:57
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20121217205345AAJJdz1
檢視 Wayback Machine 備份