I think if you love her, just follow your heart.
Let me use my probability theory to explain my opinion towards your problem.
If the probability A of success is very low, continuing with many trials will eventually hit the probability. However, if you go for probability B, A and B are independent so the probability is still going to be low (as it has always been low). Meaning P(A)=P(B). In that case, there is no point of going for P(B) because P(A) is what you love. So with infinite trials, you will eventually get to P(A).
Going for P(B) = more failure reflection while going for P(A) = a hope of P(A) happening. P(A) pushes you to develop to a even better person because you want to try to hit P(A). Only a good and qualified person can hit P(A). However, P(B) will just be hitting it for the sake of hitting it. There is no motivation or emotion involved because you know there are infinte amount of B.
In conclusion, I think it is wise to choose P(A) because you have hope. As long there is hope, there is still a chance for happiness. Otherwise, P(gain money)=happiness. I think that's what I have learnt throughout these years. I have tried P(B) before and I encourage people to choose P(A). This is the only way you have a chance for happiness. P(A) is not equal to 0!!! I will stick to P(A) for the remaining of my life because I believe in probability.
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