So Julio and I were dating a little over a year before we broke up due to family issues and it causing stress on our relationship. We broke up from April to late June, in the time apart I ended up rekindling with ex and slept with that person. Well Julio and I ended up getting back together because he kept trying to win me back during the break up, I immediately told him what I had done once back together, he denied sleeping with anyone.
I didn't believe him because he was adamant that he change his number ( which was a major issue with ex-gfs calling him all the time but refused to change it back then). I already saw the multiple girls he was texting and nude photos they sent. In an argument I told him I know the truth that he did sleep with someone and that I knew he lied about it repeatedly.
I advise him that I am not mad at what he did but the fact that he lied, on top of that he barely knew the chick and did not use a condom. When we got back together we didn't use them as I am infertile and by him not disclosing his actions he put me at risk as well as me putting myself at risk for not being smart.
He claims he did not tell me because he knew if he did I would not have taken him back. I can admit maybe we would not have been back together but we would have been friends. Now I really don't trust him because that is a huge lie and a health risk that he subjected me to without giving me the option. He seemed remorseful and stated he should have just kept it in his pants but was feeling low and bad about himself and after the sex he felt ashamed. He was worried I was going to break up with him and said that is not what he wants for me to do but understands if I want to walk away. Im just really hurt and haven't had sex with him since I found out.
Why lie? I'm trying to understand and not bash him but it really has effected my trust for him because now I can only assume what else he will lie about to keep me. He is now planning a mini vacay to get away this weekend but I told him to cancel it. Im not mad about him sleeping with another Im mad at the lie and the risk he put me in....
What would you do in my shoes?
Get over him lying about sex with other woman!?!?
2012-11-14 9:37 pm
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2012-11-14 9:43 pm
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I would not have asked, because it isn't any of my business what my significant other did while we were broke up. Asking only causes jealousy and hurt feelings like you have. However, since you did ask, and he lied, you now have a trust issue. He can't be trusted to be truthful to you. If you stay with him, you will always wonder if he is cheating on you. The relationship is dead, move on to someone honest, and don't ask about their sexual experiences unless you want a repeat of this problem.
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2016-10-24 10:49 pm
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