我同男友相處的問題

2012-09-12 4:23 am
我同男友拍了4個多月拖..
我同佢有拖手,
但我唔知點佢唔比佢kiss 同hug我
不過佢都冇勉強我
..
但自己有時會幻想同佢kiss同hug
會覺得好有安全感
但唔知點解.一番到現實既時候
總係有d驚
會諗咁樣會唔會太快太隨便
有d 怕羞

我點解會有呢種想法?
我係唔係未ready 好拍拖?!

我咁保守,係唔係一個好既對象?!

回答 (6)

2012-09-12 7:25 am
✔ 最佳答案
其實我覺得一個女仔願意同男仔拖手,
已經係對男仔有好感ge表現(濫交除外),
而你抗拒kiss同hug, 可以話係保守,但都可以話係自愛,有保護自己的心,
雖然係拍了4個多月拖,但又冇話拍拖幾個月就一定要kiss,
而且咁又唔係話唔好,可能係你心態上想一步一步慢慢同佢發展,
咁都可以表示你係認真,而唔係想同佢玩玩下,
而佢又冇勉強你,即係話佢的確係鍾意你個人,唔係你ge身體
佢都算係個幾唔錯ge男朋友,
當你慢慢放開對佢ge戒心,盡量去享受對方ge愛,
漸漸就可以接受同佢kiss同hug,
其實我覺得咁唔代表唔係一個好既對象,
只係你係一個對愛情好認真ge女仔,
總之,加油~
2012-09-18 7:48 am
this is very simply, you don't have the feeling with him yet. Once you have the feel of love, your body movement and your mind will ask for yourself to give in hug ans kisses. Believe me, once you have the feel (in love), you will let him do anything with you. At this moments, you are not in love yet, therefore, you don't have the emotion to let get into your skin. Baby, may be he is not your Mr. right.

2012-09-17 23:48:56 補充:
hug and kisses (typo ans)

2012-09-17 23:50:39 補充:
you don't have the emotion to let him get into your skin (sorry for mis-spelling and typo, I hope you understand).
2012-09-13 11:07 pm
係呢度..好想讚吓你先...
兩個人關係嘅建立...
唔應該基於身體接觸嘅...

呢個又未必代表你未準備好拍拖..
例如你仍會關心對方...照顧對方的需要等等...

「保守」同「好」又未必相提並論啦...

最後祝你可以幸福快樂...

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2012-09-12 8:13 pm
其實hug 同kiss , 呢樣野係好自然ge 事

當感覺到ge 時候, 好自然就會做架拉

5 洗擔心咁多架
2012-09-12 8:26 am
點解你有呢種諗法係好正常,其實男仔有時都會有,不過如果你對佢有信心唔會咁諗,不過好正常,四個月都好難對佢有信心,我係男仔,都好難對佢有信心

你係ready好拍拖,拖下手仔都係指拖,甜言密語就算係

呢D唔係叫保守,叫做有自我防衛意識

而且我覺得咁樣先係好對象,如果你太開放隨時會傷到自己

祝你同佢可以有一段好浪漫,值得回憶既愛情啦!>///<

我地可以俾意見你,但係最中你自己決定啦!
2012-09-12 4:57 am
你保守d係應該既 女仔人家唔應該咁open 拍拖4個幾月唔算太耐 不必太擔心 不過有d時候 心理因素都好重要 佢想kiss你 你想但唔係敢係咪? 想既時候放膽去做 只要唔後悔 想清楚 拍拖呢家野就係為左將來泥準備架ma~~

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