how can you feel how some one else feels about 6400 miles away and not be blamed because you cant?

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[匿名]

2012-09-01 1:34 pm

i often get blamed for not knowing how some one else feels when they live on the other side of the planet from me about 6400 miles away

1.they will not let me call them on the telephone .....to feel there voice

2.i can not video call them

3.i cant messenger them ...and if i email them it only a few words

4. they live in a different culture

so how can i feel how they feel with out even being able to at least to call them on the telephone at my expense

i at least need there voice vibration to tune in to them ,im not a magical wizard that can see in side their head

so how can i read how they feel with my hands tied behind my back

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更新1:

thank you froufrou and breezey 7 and others. for a long time we did communicate on a daily basis but i angered her and it easier to delete a person if they can be just computer words and they don't have to commit to a phone call at my expense ....they are inherently shy and it makes them nervous they cant say no to other men on friends lists , so there is all ways the competition .and the other men can put me down so they can have there chances .i never cared how many there were but i feel the [ person on the phone ] would be more the [ true person ] than the identity's on line .they saw me on the cam but i count see them .

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thank you others all so

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i did not give any thumbs down

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ow crap so many good answers i like them all not just because i wanted to here that i do like dissenting ones all so ...i don't want others to feel bad that i did not chose all of you

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breezey 7 i just realized they have problems communicating with others and not just me

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adagio58....liked the video thank you

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adagio58....liked the video thank you

回答 (5)

[匿名]

2012-09-01 2:17 pm

✔ 最佳答案

You are not to blame... I hope that person is reading you, so she/he could
understand. ;)

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[匿名]

2012-09-02 5:06 am

The miles and the culture don't seem to be the worst of the problem. Lack of communication, no matter how close or how far... how does one hang on when there's hardly anything to hang on to?

I have friends that I email on a regular basis and talk to daily at home. If I didn't have the option of phone calls, emails or other ways of communicating with them daily, we'd drift apart and somehow, not be as close as we are. Even daily friends here... it's not the same when communication is not an option. I no longer know what is going on in a person's life or how they are feeling, if we don't communicate.

Nobody can know what is going on or how another feels if there is no communication. That is the way it is for all of us.

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[匿名]

2012-09-02 5:01 pm

sounds like they are looking for someone to blame not specifically you, just anyone and for whatever reason they think you are the person
if they wont talk to you and tell you how they feel, and wont let you judge it properly by face to face etc , then you aren't to blame for not knowing it

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[匿名]

2012-09-01 10:32 pm

The voice vibration can let you know the person is depressed, they will sound like it. That's obvious.

However, it isn't always necessary to know what their condition is. You can just as easily visualize the person in your mind's eye and send them your love, or send them the Light - a white Light, or surround them in a glow of the colours of light yellow and light green - and this will improve their vibrations, lift any negative mood, and make their outlook more brighter.

We live in a world of vibrations and with understanding we can raise these vibrations by consciously doing so, in ourselves and in others. That is the power of one's directed thought. Use it for good.

Bashar - Sound & Vibration --

http://youtu.be/pt5cE2L9kY0

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用戶46030

2012-09-01 9:02 pm

Philosophically speaking, I fully agree with your view-point. It is extremely difficult go guess all these things from such a far off place.

參考: own

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