Aspects like saturn conjunct moon, saturn conjunct sun, saturn opposite ascendant, saturn square venus etc. I read there may be some kind of separation between the two individuals with some saturn aspects, why? I'm also wondering what makes people stick it out so long when saturn is such a downer. saturn can be so parental, controlling, critical, cold, and they want to limit your growth sometimes so they can possess you :( when you try to break free they won't let you because they make you feel like you "owe" them something. It seems like you can dish out a lot of harsh things to each other, say some pretty cruel stuff, and you keep coming back to each other. Is it that saturn aspects like these make people consciously or subconsciously feel like they "need" each other?
And once the relationship ends, the bond takes a long time to completely break. I don't think saturn misses the other person very much, but the planet person misses saturn like hell.... why? why do saturn aspects create such a strong bond? Is the bond only strong and difficult to break when you have 2 or more "hard" aspects to the sun, moon, venus, or ascendant, or can one saturn aspect act as super glue? Thanks a ton.